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Cyberstalking someone’s page, monitoring what they post or repost, then turning around and accusing them of stalking is a textbook example of projection and intimidation. If someone repeatedly watches your activity, mirrors your content, manufactures a narrative around your behavior, and then uses that narrative to discredit or frighten you, the answer isn’t to play along with the reversal. Document. Preserve the evidence. Set boundaries. Stay factual. Manipulation thrives on confusion, especially when someone tries to make the person being monitored look like the aggressor. And let’s be clear: seeing someone’s public content is not the same thing as stalking them. Repeated monitoring, unwanted contact, harassment, or attempts to intimidate someone are a different matter. Don’t let DARVO-style tactics rewrite what actually happened. The person making the accusation doesn’t automatically become the victim. Evidence matters. Patterns matter. Context matters. Projection doesn’t erase behavior. Intimidation doesn’t create truth. And accusations don’t substitute for evidence.