mae retweeted
Believe me when I say it's draining to put others first. It's fulfilling, yes. But time will come that you will regret being so considerate & kind.
I mean, do that still, but not to the extent that you'll lose yourself in the process.
Learning to say no is a form of self-love.
mae retweeted
one fact you can’t ignore, this kind of recklessness is a huge red flag for brands and producers.
i don’t understand why some fans keep reframing the issue as “they should’ve just been honest.” they DO NOT OWE US THE TRUTH about their personal lives. what THEY DO OWE US IS PROFESSIONALISM & TIMING, the kind of foresight (bare minimum) that protects their projects, brand promotions, & the labor of fandoms. in the entertainment industry, fandoms aren’t just spectators, they create momentum, hype, and reach. in that sense, artists “owe” respect to the ecosystem that amplifies their career. you’re not owed a love confession but you are owed timing and discretion that doesn’t sabotage projects that the networks, production, co artists & fans have poured their energy into.
both of them were reckless. bianca’s posts were careless TIMING that risked fan trust. will, on the other hand, tried to stay lowkey, but through the vlog confession, concert appearances, and even dummy acc photos, he let enough slip to complicate optics. neither fully managed their public timing or visibility & that kind of recklessness will hit both fandom momentum and professional credibility hard. they both acted without fully considering the ripple effects on projects, fans, and brands.
this all happened in the middle of active movie promotions, brand fanmeet & w/ collab series coming up. these are not neutral periods. these are high visibility windows. this is when brands & producers expect discipline, control, and basic professionalism on which they failed miserebly. now, would anyone invest in artists who don’t protect their own momentum? who let unnecessary noise overshadow projects that involve multiple stakeholders?
so stop with the nonsense arguments. log out, step back, or refocus your energy bec your efforts will be far more useful supporting artists who actually respect their craft, their projects, & the people investing in them. “it’s their lovelife” lol a lazy, misguided excuse. sure, it’s their love life but being in the public eye, under contracts, w/ fans, brands, and projects at stake? you fucking can’t just do anything you want. it isnt romantic, its irresponsible.
