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Wife, mummy, closet sensitive and eternal optimist, Autistic, Domestic Abuse Survivor. Views are my own

England, United Kingdom
Joined April 2011
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Reporting takes courage. Having to repeat your story over and over can be deeply distressing. Victims deserve trauma-informed responses, to be listened to with respect, and for concerns to be properly investigated. #StalkingAwareness #VAWG #VictimSupport #Safeguarding #UK
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Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can Image: instagram.com/margheritavox
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Practice Direction 12J has been in force since 2008 - for 18 years. It stipulates exactly how courts should respond to child arrangements cases where domestic abuse is an issue. But so many family court judges and magistrates don’t follow it properly or ignore it. Why? What’s so hard about following a clear blueprint for proceedings? A mother in my current research project said the judge hearing her appeal was good because he knew Practice Direction 12J well. While that is positive, what a low bar our judiciary have set. All judges should know PD12J well and follow it. Its terms aren’t guidance. They’re mandatory. Judiciary have to up their game.
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On Tuesday Minister Sarah Sackman confirmed in the UK Parliament that: “Let us be absolutely clear: the Government's position is that parental alienation has no evidential basis and is a totally discredited concept". This is very much welcome. But 100s and possibly 1000s of children have been removed from protective mothers to live with abusive fathers based on parental alienation. This has to stop and the children must be reunited with their mothers. Find out more from our podcast series @Right2Equality @SDDivorceCoach @NataliePage @Bruneluni @SarahTaylo89428 @ResoluteSupport righttoequality.org/podcasts…
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After years of advocating for myself in the justice system, I've realised how many of the same challenges exist in women's healthcare. Being heard shouldn't depend on how hard you can fight.
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🚨 Family courts are failing women and children. The evidence is undeniable. New @RighttoEquality report finds 72.5% of judgments in domestic abuse cases contain judicial victim-blaming. 530 instances — mostly from judges. Mothers discredited, their trauma trivialised, rape myths repeated, abusers excused while their behaviour is minimised. This isn’t “neutrality”. It’s institutional misogyny that puts kids at risk and re-traumatises survivors. The report lands in Parliament TODAY. Enough secrecy. Enough bias. Enough judges marking their own homework. Read the full Guardian exposé: theguardian.com/law/2026/jun… The book for those who've lived it: The System Is The Weapon amzn.eu/d/02oGEAlh
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Real love isn’t conditional or calculated. What feels like kindness can be bait in an abusive cycle. #EmotionalAbuse #GaslightingAwareness
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A rape case was dropped 13 days before trial. Years later, an independent review found it should have gone ahead. But by then, it was too late. Here's why that matters. A woman reported a rape. Three and a half years later, she was preparing for trial. Then the CPS dropped the case. The reason? A sexsomnia defence. The case would never be heard by a jury. Most people thought that was the end. It wasn't. She requested a Victim's Right to Review. An independent Chief Crown Prosecutor reviewed the decision. The conclusion was extraordinary. The case should never have been dropped. In fact, the review found it was more likely than not that a jury would have convicted. But there was a devastating problem. The CPS had already offered no evidence in court. Double jeopardy meant the case could never be reopened. The decision was found to be wrong. The outcome could not be changed. So she sued the CPS. The CPS apologised. They paid damages. They changed policy. And today, there is a pilot scheme that gives victims an option for a review before rape cases are dropped. That woman was me. My case can't be put back before a jury. But others shouldn't have to hear that a case should have gone to trial only after it's too late to do anything about it. That's why I'm campaigning for victims to have a review before cases are dropped. And for the current pilot to become permanent. Not after. When it's too late. #RightToBeReviewed #VictimsRights #JusticeMatters
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Watch. THIS. SPACE.
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When a child returns from contact displaying marked behavioural changes—such as withdrawal, refusal to communicate, hostility, degradation towards the mother, or attempts at physical or emotional harm—this may indicate child and mother sabotage (CAMS). shera-research.com/latest-ne…
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