Tomiwa 🏀

In Kenya a porn star named Lexi goes on a podcast. She talks about her life as a porn star. women APPLAUDED her. "Queen!" "Empowering!" "Smart!" "Intelligent!" "Her body her choice!" They didn’t care about the trauma. Shame. Suicidal thoughts. Broken family. Emptiness. Future Regrets. In that SAME country, a woman creates a class to teach women how to be wives. How to keep a home. How to respect a husband. How to build a family. 10,000 COMMENTS. Attacks. Insults. "Pick me!" "Internalized misogyny!" "You're setting us back!" So let’s be clear on what just happened: The woman selling her body gets called brave. The woman teaching family gets called a traitor. The woman who destroys herself gets a standing ovation. The woman who wants to build a home gets crucified. Women celebrate what destroys, condemn what builds.they call one path empowering and brave, while mocking the other for upholding marriage, family, and responsibility. And the most disturbing part? They are teaching the next generation of women what to admire, what to aspire to, and what to despise. They are telling our daughters: Be naked for strangers and you are powerful. Be loyal to one man nor your family and you are stupid. When women in a society starts applauding what undermines it and attacking what sustains it, they need to ask themselves : Have yall completely lost your moral compass? The double standard is not a mistake. It’s the point. The rage is not about morals. It’s about agenda. They don’t hate the housewife because she is wrong. They hate her because she proves their choices are not the only choices.