I sat in silence for a good moment after she broke down what I have felt these 40 years of life in just two minutes.
This is by far my favorite interview she has ever done.
So grateful for @GabbySidibe breaking down the antifatness, colorism, shapism, etc. that so many of us experience in this world.
Similarly I know I’m stunning but not by societal standards and my treatment by others has been laced with antifatness.
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我发现一个现象:
在美国的PhD很疯狂,他们可以为了一个会议连续熬夜三四天,也可以直接quit一个星期去参加朋友婚礼。工作之余的娱乐活动是攀岩,开车一天去Joshua公园露营。
在中国的PhD很规矩,每天按时打卡,一直加班到晚上在下班,所谓的娱乐活动无非是洗浴,唱K。
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No, we do advise students of this, and they universally refuse to listen.
A lot of people start PhDs with the expectation that academia is a normal industry where you can work hard and make a good living. In reality, most fields are like professional sports: grinding and low wages with the occasional superstar. Unfortunately, most professors don’t live in reality and fail to advise their students properly.
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"you attract what you fear"
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH A HIGH SALARY JOB WITH THE NICEST WORK ENVIRONMENT EVER?!



















































