Sasha Vendetta

If sex work is only done out of desperation, then please tell me why so many people with degrees and job options still choose it. I’ll wait.

PSA to any woman, or anyone inexperienced, thinking about getting into sex work Be extremely skeptical of anyone whose entire brand is built around flashing stacks of cash, luxury gifts, designer bags, and a supposedly effortless lifestyle while promising they’ll teach you the game. The lifestyle is the advertisement. You are the customer. The second someone starts selling courses on how to swerve, trick, or secure the bag, ask yourself why they’re making more money selling access to you than they are from the lifestyle they’re trying to convince you is so lucrative. The most dangerous people aren’t always the ones who openly call themselves pimps. Sometimes they’re the ones who wrap exploitation in the language of female empowerment, mentorship, and community. If someone’s business model depends on constantly recruiting inexperienced women into their orbit, that’s a glaring red flag. If they’re promising wealth while minimizing the risks, they’re selling a fantasy, not education. The people worth listening to are the ones who tell you about boundaries, safety, financial planning, coercion, violence, burnout, taxes, and how to leave the industry if you choose, not just how to buy your next Chanel bag. A mentor wants you to become independent. A recruiter wants you to become profitable. Learn the difference before you mistake one for the other.