The divorce rate among college and NFL coaches is estimated at 60 to 70 percent. Joshua Eargle has coached 23 years. Five FBS bowl games. Thirteen players to the NFL. His wife, Kristen, has moved with him through 14 programs. One of their children, Landrey, has had 23 hospitalizations and needs around-the-clock care. They have been with programs where the kids weren't welcome at the office. Their children went several days without seeing their father. Now Eargle is building the first football program at Texas A&M-Texarkana. He hung a motto on it: "All families. All the time. Always welcome." When a coach gets the job, his family gets the lifestyle. Nobody asks them first.