Creator/Owner of The Heffs Lifestyle, Black Heffs™/ Pink Heffs™ sexual vitamins, The Sensual Art of Impact Play Seminar, BDSM Trainer & Sensual Pro Dom.
The Universe & Charlotte, NC
Joined June 2010
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The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
BDSM and KINK is NOT sexwork… although they may intersect in people’s lives and practices, it’s important to know BDSM isn’t sexwork
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
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The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
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The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
While North Carolina's HB 805 has some similarities with federal record keeping law 18 USC § 2257, its requirements go significantly further, creating a more stringent legal landscape for the adult industry...🌀
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The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
You can bottom without being a submissive and top without being a dominant. The only true Dom/sub relationships are consensually agreed upon with boundaries and desires know to both participants.
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
Being a Dom doesn't require damage to exist.
A Dom role is not to tear a sub down to make them obedient.
A sub doesn't kneel because they've been reduced to nothing. They kneel if you're worthy to surrender to.
Stand tall. Not by crushing them but by holding them steady.
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
Kink is full of paradox and contradictions, which is why it takes a certain level of maturity to truly Play.
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
This whole debate about people hating on anal sex is funny af
No man could ever make me ashamed for loving anal, I cum the most from it 😭😭
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
If you are into BDSM make sure the person you are dealing with actually is into it too. It’s rules to that lifestyle.
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
"A Dom job is to be powerful and make the sub feel as small as possible" is trash mindset.
Submission is strongest when it’s chosen freely and repeatedly everyday.
Everyday a sub chooses to kneel. Everyday the Dom is chosen to guide and lead the sub.
Protect, care and love.
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
Gratitude in a dynamic is vital!
A sub offering their vulnerability. Dom guiding that vulnerability.
When both openly appreciate those roles. A deeper connection is formed.
A sub gratitude is not about worship, it is about acknowledgment of the care behind the commands.
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
CONSENT IS NOT HARD
The Duke of Debauchery retweeted
Aftercare isn’t optional it’s essential.
As a Dom your responsibility doesn’t end when the scene does it’s the beginning of your duties. Aftercare builds trust, ensures emotional and physical safety, and strengthen the connection in the dynamic. Don't neglect aftercare!
