I want a home where there's laughter, affection, good food, little traditions and two people who actually enjoy each other's company. I want to be excited when I hear his keys at the door. I want him to look forward to seeing me, too. I don't need a perfect life. I want a peaceful one with someone who loves me properly.
I want to be a soft place for my man to land, too. I want to listen when life gets heavy, celebrate his achievements, make him laugh when he's stressed and remind him that he doesn't have to carry everything by himself. I want a relationship where he feels just as loved, appreciated and emotionally safe as I do.
I refuse to let disappointing relationships convince me that genuine love is unrealistic. I still believe two people can be deeply attracted to each other, fiercely loyal, affectionate, honest and intentional. I still believe a man can be romantic after the honeymoon phase. I still believe love can feel exciting and safe at the same time.
I'm done convincing people to treat me with consideration. If I have to repeatedly explain why honesty matters, why affection matters or why keeping your word matters, we're probably not looking for the same kind of relationship. I want a man who already understands that loving someone means being thoughtful about how you make them feel.
It doesn’t mean u have to open ur heart to someone new right now. It just means u start to accept that love isn’t about being loyal to ur pain. It’s about choosing to care for yourself. ❤️Because every ounce of love you tried to give him will come back to you tenfold.
It’s hard, because u don’t actually want 'someone else.' U want the version of him who once showed u he could be kind, attentive, and present. That’s the one u miss, not the distant, detached one. That’s why it hurts so deeply, because u saw what it could be, if only he wanted it too... But here’s the harsh truth, until he decides to face himself, u can’t make him meet u halfway. U’re standing in the fog, hoping he’ll finally see u, while he’s looking in a completely different direction...





