Social scientist (psychology) studying commitment, marriage, cohabitation. Univ of Denver. https://xitter.cf/t.co/IHViJrabZv https://xitter.cf/t.co/dLPWny4PTU
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A 2002 study from @DecideOrSlide and colleagues still feels strikingly relevant: How couples argue is more related to divorce risk than what they argue about.
As @harrybenson6 notes, "while women are more sensitive to the way they are treated, men are more sensitive to the level of argument reached."
More from @FamStudies: ifstudies.org/blog/rule-numb…
Scott M. Stanley retweeted
The second blog post is by @DecideOrSlide about creating couple identity:
ifstudies.org/blog/me-you-an…
Scott M. Stanley retweeted
#HDFS284 Students: The second blog post that is required reading for today is a recent blog post by @DecideOrSlide exploring current research regarding cohabitation and the potential link to divorce:
ifstudies.org/blog/is-cohabi….
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Michael Rosenfeld is a fine scholar, & this is a nifty animation. HT @RobertFrodeman NB @OMGchronicles @BradWilcoxIFS @DecideOrSlide
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I want to recommend this book by Sarah Halpern-Meekin on Social Capital and couples in poverty, wherein she focuses on two types of poverty: economic and social.
amazon.com/Social-Poverty-Lo…
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Exciting news! I have a brand new article published today with @AmberVennum, @allenbmallory, @cambrows, @wisconsinfever #dating #commitment
“We’re Just Talking”: Constructing a Recent Trend in Emerging Adult Romantic Relationship Development:- Get Access tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.…
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Regret having children? Or not having any? It's mostly one directional.
Among 45+ year old Americans:
7% of those with children would have 0 if they could go back.
56% of those without children would have some if they could go back.
news.gallup.com/poll/164618/…
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#HDFS284 Students: In preparation for class today make sure that you have read the Before "I Do" research report by Dr. Galena Rhoades and @DecideOrSlide and to finish Chapter 4 in your textbook. Also...
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Friday Five: Webinar: Sept 10 at 4:00 PM - 5:00 PM EDT
Lopsided Love: Asymmetrical Commitment in Romantic Relationships with @DecideOrSlide via @dibbleInst
register.gotowebinar.com/reg…
Scott M. Stanley retweeted
"women have higher expectations of support and intimacy in their close relationships than men do. Women integrate our friends into our lives as deeply as siblings, whereas men treat their friends more like cousins." psychologytoday.com/us/blog/…
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How American couples meet, 1930 to 2024. Love is sparked in the real world with increasing rarity; the majority of relationships are now formed online.
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Of note, #IBM would have known about this problem long before their memo came out on 9-28 (because of problems during Sonoma's beta).
Most large software companies would have figured out what to do by now. Most opinion is IBM will just wait until version 30 of SPSS comes out.
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Warning to anyone using SPSS (#ibmstatistics) on a Mac. Do NOT upgrade to Sonoma. It will not work on Sonoma. Spent a day downgrading too Macs to Ventura and something sticks--IBM installer won't run on the reverted computers.
Just a warning to any Mac users of #IBM software.
Scott M. Stanley retweeted
The log in their own eye: "People are more likely to recognise inconsistency in others’ moral judgments than in their own." papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.…
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It's difficult to sum up in a single tweet how ruinous fertility this low is. It'll produce economic decline & sociological chaos, all under a pall of pessimism.
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As people get older, their personality becomes more mature, with Neuroticism decreasing, while Conscientiousness and Agreeableness increase. psyarxiv.com/v3pwc/
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Young men are spending more time on video games & tv and less time working, exercising & sleeping. (Chart @bloomberg with edits for clarity, red=decreases.) We need more categories — assuming much of the “socializing & communicating” here is on phones and not in person.
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Of course I do not think women should be made to stay in violent marriages.
My book certainly does not argue that women should marry men who treat them badly.
This is exactly the type of rhetorical attack that has made it so difficult for us to have this necessary conversation.
We should acknowledge that the freedom women gained to have, keep and raise children without being married is a tremendous advance. And we should never lose sight of the despicable state and family violence done to women and children before that advance. theguardian.com/world/2017/m…
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Friday Five: Slides/Handout from talk at NARME 2023 on premarital cohabitation @DecideOrSlide
slidingvsdeciding.blogspot.c…