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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Actually, a man who doesn’t protect your nervous system isn’t a protector at all.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
I have a phobia of feeling like I’m bothering people.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Always learning. Always growing. Always evolving.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
It’s a privilege to feel things deeply but what the hell
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forever🥹❤️
I will forever be a r&b girly ❤️‍🔥
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
I will forever be a r&b girly ❤️‍🔥
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Maybe the biggest blessing is that something didn't work out when you desperately wanted it to.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
She's officially in her “God knows my heart, and that's enough for me” era.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Office politics is exhausting. I just want to do my work, get paid, and go home.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
We’re about to learn that most code written over the last 20 years was complete slop and most software developers were never that good
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
make sure you love you.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
When you try to solve problems by using half-baked solutions without thinking about unintended consequences, you create newer problems while expanding the current problems.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
y’all think being a provider starts & ends with money 😭 baby money can pay bills, it cannot provide emotional safety, leadership, consideration or consistency.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
“I want you to always be certain of one thing, baby. You have a man who genuinely loves you, who is intentional about you, and who wants to build something lasting with you. You'll never have to compete for your place in my life or question how much you mean to me. I want to be your peace, your safe place, and your favourite person to come home too. And if I had to choose all over again, I'd still find my way to you” Something like this
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
survived a lot privately this year.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
To avoid disappointment, take people as they are & not what you want them to be.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
ignoring your partner's needs and still expecting a happy relationship, is like ignoring your plants need water and still expecting a beautiful garden
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
You cannot perform nonchalance. You're either nonchalant or not.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Never make your partner feel stupid for expressing their feelings.
Unwritten rules of a relationship ?
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