Elijairu⚡️

I have heard that but i want to know if you have smoked before?

I heard Nigerian women on student visa abroad don’t date African men who are also on student visa. So you girls traveled with this “are we mates” mentality?

Part 3: Finale To be honest, I love my boyfriend but this period showed my that “love won’t be enough”, I had to distance myself from him even though I hardly ask for any support from him. Meet this White guy shows that money is very important in a relationship, he shows up for me during the hard times. He covered up all final year week and sign out even gave me money to a new laptop. Now he asked me out when I was about to finish my final paper which I told him to give me time after I am done with the exam, I would give him a reply. Now I am stuck with between two worlds, my family knows about my boyfriend’s preparations towards the wedding next year which I am now rethinking about it, I can’t settle for less so I might not move like that again and at the same time I don’t want to break his heart. So many things running through my head, I just wish I thought this through earlier but honestly I really wished my boyfriend pushed himself to get a value by adding a degree.

E no mean. If you have money, put her on. If you no get I expect her to understand. Where there will be an issue is if she’s making it mandatory. But if you have money, I don’t see anything wrong in that, after all we give people we hardly know money almost every single week. Not to talk of one’s gf. These simple basic things in relationships until people start making it look so hard and serious like exams.

Why are these ladies acting like they don't understand what he's saying...??

One of the worst things you can do to yourself as a man abroad is to marry a Nigerian girl abroad. It’s a case of dog chop dog. I avoid them like a plague here. They are good for NOTHING. "I'll support him when he is financially down." 🤡🤡 It is your father that will be down.

I went to a POS stand near my house to withdraw ₦80,000 in the night. The agent, a quiet woman I had seen a hundred times, took my card, swiped it, then suddenly said, “Network is bad. It failed. Come back tomorrow.” Then my phone buzzed. Debit alert. ₦80,000. I said, “Madam, I’ve been debited.” She said, “It will reverse. Just go home.” No cash. No reversal. I didn’t sleep that night. Next morning, I marched back, ready to cause a scene. She was sitting there like she’d been waiting for me. She looked me in the eye and asked, “Did you notice the man in the black cap standing behind you yesterday?” ... I said no. She said, “Good. Because he followed you from the bank, and the reason I told you the transaction failed

𝗕𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 “𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲.” 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴. 𝗜𝗳 𝘂 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗣𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗶𝘁, 𝘂 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗼𝘁.