Especially us black men. We can't partake in self care UNLESS they are the ones facilitating it. A black man can get a manicure, pedicure and a facial as long as his woman is the one that's doing it, but if he does it as a single man, he is gay to them. It's so crazy to observe.

As a man, sometimes I wonder if women actually want men to love and prioritize ourselves out of selfishness.

This is why I have always believed that we as black people don't really understand homophobia. It's not and irrational fear of gay people, it's the very real fear of being seen or viewed as one that creates the violence. Black men are terrified of being viewed as gay.

Do women hate the reality of their bodies? I often wonder that. As soon as you turn 18, your time starts winding down. Menopause starts in their mid 40s. You have about 27 years to make some major life decisions.

You all are CHOOSING to promote and harass the companies that don't fuck with you and making them business and money instead of highlighting the ones that do. You all like this messy ass shit. That is my issue. If you can't understand that, I can't explain it any further.