FinDaddy Joe The Mind Manipulator

You don’t need composure. You don’t need self respect. Let’s not pretend here, the only thing you need is My attention. And there is only one way to get it.

The beauty of being a bitter divorced Dom is I’m neither in nor seeking a relationship IRL. Why would I? It’s much more fun to be worshipped here, and much less hassle. But what does that mean for YOU? Why is that relevant? Admit it, subs hate it (in the main, there are exceptions) when their dominant is in a relationship, it ruins their fantasy that they are special. And in a way you are, or could be, I can pour into My subs much better and more easily not having to work around a jealous partner. So step up, wow Me, spoil Me, give in to Me. You will never have Me, nor be with Me, but you can worship Me, be used by Me and feel the sunlight of My gaze and My attention.

Do you remember the last time you went to bed and didn’t feel it? Or woke up and it wasn’t the first, most pressing, urgent thing on your mind? Overwhelming, inexorable and yes inevitable 😏 Don’t fight it. I’m here for you ready to ‘lighten your load’ (in ways that feel good to Me). A heavy wallet is a dreadful burden for those with a submissive soul. A full bank account is a wasted opportunity fot those with a need to serve and worship. It’s ok I can help you, that’s right it begins on all fours. Say it Say “help me Master” and get ready for change. It’s happened hasn’t it, that’s how you know it’s TRUE.

I’m just going to admit it, he won the CINNAMON CHALLENGE! Normally the challenge results in clouds of cinnamon going everywhere punctuated by a chorus of retching, couching, sneezing and even vomiting. It’s normally regret city, but props to him he toughed it out and it looked like a walk in the park. I tried to induce failure by making him dance the Macarena clothed only in 20 or so clothes pins but to no avail.

I really don’t like my boys to become dehydrated at work. Responsible work requires optimal hydration, and that includes vitamins and minerals. Health is wealth people, and your wealth is of course My wealth!

How far is too far… When you stop saying “please” and start begging like you mean it. When the ache, the need, stays with you the next day and you still want it again. When you trust me enough to go quiet and just take what I give. Too far is forgetting you can stop. As a great friend of mine used to say, as we headed down paths of increasing debauchery…too much is never enough. How close do you want to stand to that line?

Don’t worry this was not blood! What it was, was a hefty spoonful of mexican spice blend he was instructed to keep in his mouth whilst he edged. Cinnamon would have been preferred in fairness but sometimes we work with what we have! He purchased cinnamon the next day for Me. Be like @subby2026

Interesting thing on My thoughts on submissives and chastity. I DO think it is best and optimal (if not always possible) for subs to wear chastity cages. The physical presence and frustration is a constant reminder of who (ie Me) is actually in control, that is added counterintuitive pleasure of sorts for you also. I believe it also focuses and ramps up the right sort of energy that allows you to let go and really lean into your true nature more easily. And that’s a good thing. But for those fearing that they will NEVER be allowed release, well that’s a matter of choice, I do play with some subs who stay locked by choice (except for hygiene cleaning) for reasons personal to themselves, but I tend to prefer subs to stay chaste and locked BETWEEN sessions, I enjoy edging ( and denying) far too much to not allow a little unlocked fun. Believe Me it’s the sweetest most delicious thing to Me to have you edged, trembling, whimpering and begging only to make you lock back up. Don’t fear the cage, don’t fear the lock, savour it, and let it take you wear you need to go!

Just got back from a fun day with the fam, had the most fun and giggles regaling my dear sister in law with recent tales of your escapades. It’s good to share, sharing is caring no?

Have you ever been caught? By who? And what were the consequences! 🤭

Are you as excited now to be here as the first day you logged on and scrolled? Is it still the most fun to check your DMs and notifications? Do you feel freer and more liberated herw than elsewhere? These are important questions, this is still My favourite place, and for the most part My people here are still My favourites. What say you?

He is a grown ma wearing 4 piss soaked nappies and with an outsized pair of underpants wedgied underneath and over his head. He is currently singing and dancing to his interpretation of Humpty Dumpty. Numpty Humpty Dumpty. Welcome to Friday! 🤭

As Doms we see people often in the moments of greatest joy and happiness. That comes from providing the space for authentic real expression. With that comes responsibility too, with real, authentic expression comes our seeing those in our charge at their most raw, unfiltered and yes, vulnerable. We have as Doms the capacity for great good or great evil (not the fun consensual evil). Remember, when all is said and done, treat others as you would wish to be treated, and understand you have to stand in front of your mirror each morning and look at your reflection. For some that will be easy as we fire off a cheeky wink and smile to ourselves, for others…well you know what you did, what does your reflection show or tell you?

A grinned wider than the Cheshire Cat when I read this from @subby2026 this fine morn! Our last playtime involved copious amounts of oatmeal and maple syrup (which I will share more of on another post). It always gives Me a little mischevious charge when our fun leaks out into the vanilla world 🤭 What do you think though? Extra fun? Or paranoia city?

He is supposed to be remote working from home. Instead he is jerking and edging on company time. Should I let him spurt? Or squeeze out every last dime 🤭