Navigating queer discourse for what it’s worth. 🏳️‍🌈

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Joined May 2021
Gay men have all experienced that moment when a straight man is being unusually nice and you have to remind your brain to behave.
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I need to give another update on what is happening because this situation is becoming increasingly frightening. The day I decided to leave my apartment and stay out of sight for my own safety, I had no idea what would happen the following morning. According to the security guards on my street, at around 7 a.m. the next day, my landlady arrived at my apartment with approximately SEVEN POLICE OFFICERS, two of whom were reportedly in plain clothes. She allegedly began shouting about how I owed her money and making a scene at the property. The officers accompanying her were said to be from Abuja. Now, I need everyone to understand something. The police had already told my lawyer that tenancy disputes between landlords and tenants were not their responsibility. So why was my landlady arriving at my residence with seven police officers over an alleged debt? Why bring officers from Abuja, including people in plain clothes, to a tenant’s residence in connection with a dispute that the police themselves say is not their responsibility? The circumstances are deeply concerning, especially because I had already felt unsafe enough to leave my home. This happened before the police were served with the court papers in my fundamental human rights case. Since then, my lawyer has also been told that the police have their own ways of tracking me down. Considering everything that has happened, I am genuinely afraid of what this situation could become. I cannot independently confirm who arranged for these officers to attend or why they were there. But I believe these events deserve serious scrutiny. I am a transgender woman in Nigeria, trying to protect my fundamental human rights through the courts. I should not have to live in fear while doing so. I am asking people to pay attention, amplify my story, and help me stay safe. I am also still struggling to raise money for rent while dealing with this situation. I never imagined that trying to protect myself would become this exhausting. Please amplify. 🏳️‍⚧️
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Be gay, but don't be mean.
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Every gay person needs therapy
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Gay people can be so mean!
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Wrong. That’s a sociopath.
A gay man who is kind only to men he finds attractive isn’t a nice guy. He’s a salesman with a target market.
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
AND THAT’S WHY AS A TOP I ALWAYS MAKE SURE I GIVE THEM GOOD DICK IT’S THE LEAST THAT I CAN DO #TOPoftheworld
Bottoms deserve compensation for the amount of emotional intelligence, advance planning and logistical coordination that goes into some of these supposedly spontaneous encounters. 😭
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Bottoms deserve compensation for the amount of emotional intelligence, advance planning and logistical coordination that goes into some of these supposedly spontaneous encounters. 😭
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
That’s the problem, niggas out here starving themselves and taking Imodium to maintain an illusion that then skews expectations because men are stupid.
Bottoms deserve compensation for the amount of emotional intelligence, advance planning and logistical coordination that goes into some of these supposedly spontaneous encounters. 😭
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
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Bottoms deserve compensation for the amount of emotional intelligence, advance planning and logistical coordination that goes into some of these supposedly spontaneous encounters. 😭
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
my CRS teacher
Gay representation in entertainment has come a long way, but I want to know something: which gay celebrity made you feel seen before you were ready to be seen yourself? Not necessarily your favourite celebrity. The one who made something click for you. 🏳️‍🌈
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Exactlyyyyyyyyyyy lol
A gay man who is kind only to men he finds attractive isn’t a nice guy. He’s a salesman with a target market.
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
The read oml???
Some gay men are not hard to get. They’re just easy to get and difficult to keep, which is a very expensive combination. 😭
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My Halloween costume is going as a gay man who has completely moved on from his ex. The costume includes a fake smile, a private account for stalking, and the ability to say “I wish him well.” 😭
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
What's so funny? Any body would be lucky to wife me
Happy Birthday to Peter Obi's son's "wife" 🙆😎😭
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Blind yourself if it pains you that much
No be Obi pikin be this, abi my eyes dey pain me ni?
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
Happy black history month. I'm Kent and I made the first black british film about a black british trans woman who has to choose between the black American man she loves or a life without him. The film will be out on the 30th October. Teaser trailer: youtu.be/ucb48ydVi6Q?is=mYJB…
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Xanda🏳️‍🌈 retweeted
A year ago, I was bullied, made fun of and publicly shamed online and in Nigerian media for my trans identity. For a while, I retreated back into the closet, but even in that difficult season, I held on to my dream of creating a universe of Black trans and Black queer films and television shows that could hold us, even as the world continues to debate, condemn and make fun of our existence. Coming back to myself and finding the courage to create again has been a journey, but I am proud that I chose to turn away from those rotten voices and make room for my own. I am immensely proud to have made a film unlike anything I have seen before. One Last Day in the UK tells the story of a Black British trans woman and her final day of romance with a Black American man. It will be available on YouTube on 30 October. Teaser Trailer below: youtu.be/ucb48ydVi6Q?is=DfEl…
Kent Okwesa, PO’s son-in-law has finally landed in Agulu. Wow, such class. 😂
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please help boost, send to your gc, donate every action is appreciated❤️
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8088529673 Opay Similoluwa
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Any support, whether financial or in the form of a phone, would mean a great deal and help me stay on track to graduate. Please help me🙏
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