In all thy setting up, teamwork should not be compromised. Teamwork makes the dream work. An organization that encourages compartmentalization regardless of their strategies and created silos within might struggle with their deliverables.
Why do some organizations have great strategies and talented people, yet still struggle to deliver results?
The problem may not be the people. It may be the way the organization works.
Three things make the difference in the business world. These are Strategy, System, and Structure.
Success is not just about having a plan. It is about making that plan work.
Focus on your strategy, system, and structure, and see the difference they can make in your results.
As a woman, until you are capable of living your life constructively in marriage without regret, never contemplate Marriage. No matter how promising the man can be. Marriage can be character assassinating. You struggle to stay in and out of character.
A married man sends money to his parents every month.
His wife complains that their household is struggling while he continues supporting his extended family.
He says taking care of his parents is a responsibility he cannot abandon.
She says his first duty is to his wife and children.
How should married couples balance supporting parents with their own financial responsibilities?
Compromising becomes self abandonment when what you are giving up for is not measurable and better than what you gave up. When you compromise all boundaries and standards and ended up feeling less of yourself, that's self abandonment. Anything else better than better is the best.
Never fall in love with a deal. A deal is just a deal. There will always be other deals and other opportunities.
In the game of life, if you do not understand that real winners and real losers emerge from serious negotiations, then you will be robbed, whatever the circumstances.
Parents do not need money to be sent to them unless they are in business. They need to be served.
Make arrangements for routine medical check up including home services, supplements and essential food supplies delivery all paid for. Then be sending small amount for utilities.
My friend got a job paying ₦850k monthly after being unemployed for three years.
The first month he received his salary, he sent ₦200k to his mother and kept the rest for rent, feeding, and other expenses.
His mother called him the following morning.
She asked why he sent only ₦200k when he earned ₦850k.
He explained that he had responsibilities too.
She became angry and reminded him of the money she spent on his education.
He apologised and promised to do better.
The following month, she called again and demanded ₦500k.
He sent it.
By the third month, she insisted he must send at least ₦700k because she wanted to build a house.
When he refused, she told their relatives that her son had become proud because he was now earning money.
The shocking part now is that:
He is considering leaving his job and moving to another state because he can no longer handle the pressure.
I kept telling him that why will he leave his job of 850k because of his mother?
Please does this even make sense?
When he's supposed to put his mum in her place? As a man what would you do?
Apparently, the earth was not truly cursed. It only refused to encourage laziness and feed lazy and entitled men. It needed men to till it and water it for it to yield vineyards. You can reap from the land. You just have to till it and seed it. Don't let anyone say you can't.
Marriage or relationship should be about AWARENESS, ACCEPTANCE, and CONSOLIDATION.
You have to be very much aware of vital and essential things about your partner, review and evaluate, and accept them if worth it or improve on areas that need improvement, and consolidate them.
A woman has been married for 20 years.
Her husband provides financially but has never shown her affection, appreciation or emotional support.
She says she feels lonely in her own marriage.
Her friends tell her she is ungrateful because many women would love to have a financially responsible husband.
Is financial provision enough to sustain a marriage?
Attraction is a function of so many things. Anything that made you still love someone while losing attraction only shows you are learning how to love and support without losing enthusiasm. Infatuation can be the bedrock of true love. Although everything is subject to review.
would you tell your partner if you no longer found them attractive, even if you still love them?
imagine staying faithful, caring for them, and doing everything a good partner should, but no longer feeling the physical attraction you once did.
must you confess it and risk damaging their confidence, or is keeping quiet kinder when you know you have no intention of leaving?
To step into wellness, you must leave behind the version of yourself that was comfortable in sickness.
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“There is a different culture of trying to solve problems with money rather than with your brains.”
Can we make it easier for our lovers to love us well and better with improved communication skills while in relationship 🤔. People have working minds design to chase the realities of life. I believe with good communication skills, everything about the human desires can be met.