8. Sneaking the condom off
Taking it off mid-sex without asking has a name: stealthing.
Plenty of countries treat it as sexual assault, and she'll never trust you again.
Want to go without one? Ask before sex, while you're both sober. Then take no for an answer.
9. Sulking after a no
If she says "not tonight" and you go silent with your back to her, you look like a kid who got denied dessert.
Now she feels guilty for saying no, and guilt kills the mood for next time too.
Say "no worries" and pull her close. Mean it.
7. More partners, no protection or testing
More partners means more routes for infection. The CDC counted 26 million new STIs in the US in 2018.
Many cause no symptoms in men, so you can pass one on without knowing.
Most of this comes down to force, pressure, heat and ignoring warning signs.
Give it room, get tested, and get pain checked early.
Share this with a friend who needs it.