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I've got one hand in my pocket and the other one is baking a cheesecake

South Africa
Joined April 2009
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and for the ladyโ€ฆ perhaps a low-stress, high-paying, part-time, creative, WFH job?
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"Money can't buy happiness" but it absolutely buys a regulated nervous system. Knowing you can handle any financial emergency without a panic attack is a different kind of wealth.
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Eu me recusando a dormir porque nรฃo tive tempo suficiente para mim depois do trabalho
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You donโ€™t solve poverty by teaching everyone to become millionaires. You solve poverty by building an economy where ordinary work can produce a decent life.
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On a serious note, there should be management meetings in all big companies today discussing how to alleviate the effects of the fuel price increase for employees. Unless youโ€™re able to pay your staff more, you need to, where possible, offer solutions.
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Calling r*pe โ€œnon-consensual sexโ€ is like calling robbery โ€œnon-consensual shopping.โ€ Stop softening violence.
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Imrah retweeted
hey @macklemore im sorry i tweeted in 2014 you should mackle less. you can mackle as much as you want. free palestine โœŠ๐Ÿฝ
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Curfew for men. Let's start there instead of telling women how to protect themselves.
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friendly reminder: you can start anytime. you can brush your teeth in the middle of the day. you can wash the dishes at 2am. you can do things outside the normal times assigned by society.
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Date him like you will one day be 9 months pregnant, exhausted and completely dependent on him. Date him like your parents just passed away and he is your only support system. Date him like the world is ending and he is your main hope for you and your familyโ€™s protection and survival. Would you still choose him?
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Iโ€™m convinced 98% of my problems could be solved with more money and three-day weekends.
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A hard lesson from administering my late mother's estate: read the fine print on life rights before your parents sign one. For those unfamiliar: a life right is a popular retirement-village model in South Africa. You don't buy the property. You pay a large lump sum (often R2m+) for the right to occupy a unit for the rest of your life. The operator retains ownership and the title. When the holder dies, here is what nobody really explains up front. 1. The operator takes a fixed chunk regardless of how long you lived there. Typical contracts deduct around 40 percent of a notional "Listing Consideration" as the operator's effective fee, amortised over five years. If your loved one lives in the unit for two years, three years, or even just under five, that 40 percent disappears anyway. My mother paid R2 million in 2021. Five years later, the estate stands to receive less than half of it back. 2. The estate keeps paying levies after death. Indefinitely. The contract terminates automatically when the holder dies. But you, as the estate, remain liable for the full monthly levy, rates, and consumption charges until the operator finds a new buyer. There is no deadline. No reasonable-time obligation written in. We are six weeks past hand-over and the invoices keep arriving. 3. The estate cannot use, let, or even allow family to enter the unit. The right to occupy was "personal in nature." It died with the holder. The estate cannot put a tenant in, cannot let it on Airbnb, cannot even allow family to stay there without the operator's written consent. Every mitigation lever sits with the operator at their sole discretion. 4. The operator has zero incentive to re-sell quickly. They hold your capital interest-free until a buyer is found. They earn the levy every month you wait. They earn a remarketing fee on re-sale. The longer they take, the better for them. The worse for you. 5. The contract usually contains a CPA exemption-by-design. Most of these schemes acknowledge the Consumer Protection Act on paper, then carve themselves into clauses that allow exactly the kind of one-sided continuation of obligations the CPA was meant to police. Sections 48 and 52 of the CPA, and the Constitutional Court line on fairness in contract (Barkhuizen, Beadica), give real grounds to push back. But you have to know to push. If you or a family member is considering a life right, please: - Read the full agreement including every annexure, not just the marketing brochure. - Model the worst case: holder dies within 3 to 5 years of taking occupation. - Calculate the estate's expected net return, including post-death levy bleed if re-sale takes 6 to 12 months. - Get independent legal advice before signing. Not advice from the village's referred attorneys. - Ask explicitly: what is the operator's contractual obligation to re-sell within a reasonable time? If the answer is "none," walk away. There are genuinely good retirement villages and well-structured life rights out there. But the structural risk to the estate is rarely disclosed up front. If you've been through this and want to compare notes, please reach out.
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haaate that couch sleepy does not transfer to bed sleepy......
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girls be like: im watching my comfort tv show The show:
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The weird thing about reading so much as a child and gaining a huge vocabulary from that is I can't define a lot of the words I use, I just...know that they would fit correctly in a specific sentence? Does anyone else experience that?
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If you have the money, pay for the comfort. Thereโ€™s no award for suffering.
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Girls: Have one of these in your bag wherever you go. You never know when you'll be struck with period pains etc. Be careful not to get any in your eyes though, it's almost like being pepper sprayed- which you MUSTN'T carry because that's illegal in the UK.
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Your body does not give a damn about your diet or gym routine if you're constantly overwhelmed by your life circumstances. Prioritize your peace.
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