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There’s a difference between being chosen and simply being kept around. And once you realize you’re only being kept around out of convenience, as someone to pass the time with, it’s a different kind of hurt.
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A lack of consideration will eventually destroy any bond we have. I’m not going to keep reminding you to communicate or act like you care about me. You shouldn’t have to repeatedly explain the importance of basic consideration to someone who claims to value you. It’s exhausting having to ask for things that should come naturally when someone genuinely cares about how their actions affect you. I understand that nobody is perfect, but there’s a difference between making mistakes and repeatedly showing someone that their feelings aren’t being considered. I don’t expect perfection but I refuse to keep asking for consideration. If I have to constantly remind you to treat me like I matter, eventually I’ll remove myself.
When someone repeatedly fails to show up for me when I need them most, I eventually stop reaching for them. I’ve learned to carry my own struggles, pick myself back up, and keep moving.
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Wholesome Beige One ✨ retweeted
I’ve never been a materialistic person, so tryna bribe me with nice things I can buy myself, doesn’t work.
Wholesome Beige One ✨ retweeted
most of my relationships have taught me that sometimes, the more chances you give people, the less seriously they take you… they stop fearing the consequences of their actions because they’ve become comfortable with the idea that you’ll always be there. never let anyone become so comfortable with your presence that they start taking your emotions for granted
Wholesome Beige One ✨ retweeted
It’s almost Friday, so there’s really no point in Outlook coming back now.
And it’s November, so it’s almost Christmas. No point really coming back until January if you think about it.
Let’s circle back then.
Wholesome Beige One ✨ retweeted
I don’t want to keep pouring my heart into someone who can’t give me the same love, effort, and consistency in return.
You can say all the right things and still do all the wrong things. Sweet words sound nice, but they don’t mean shit when your actions consistently show me the exact opposite. Eventually, I believe what you show me, not what you tell me.
Wholesome Beige One ✨ retweeted
A relationship to me is a mutual investment and interest in another persons happiness, so if you only care about yourself you shouldn’t be with anyone lol … 🤷🏽♀️
Whew! 😮💨🤌🏽
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Wholesome Beige One ✨ retweeted
i ain got no hidden agenda. you do right by me, imma always do right by you
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I want a relationship so genuine, consistent and emotionally safe that my nervous system no longer feels the need to prepare for disappointment. Where I don’t have to overthink, second-guess or brace myself for them to change. I just want to feel secure, considered and loved without constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop.