For years, I was stuck on teams drained of passion that treated me as a mere code monkey.
I got no say, all blame, no praise.
My Growth - My Career - was stuck in mud.
I don't want that to happen to you or anyone else.
So, here are my top tips on how to escape from misery:
Replying to @jenwiderberg
That's awesome, Jen. I'd be happy help. But there's a lot more to unpack than I can fit on here. I'll need to dive deeper into the issue first. 🙂
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I think there's a broader question that's missed: How do we best connect the right job seeker with the right job poster?
I don't think the traditional CV does that well.
And requiring a traditional CV for an application might be shoe horning old tech into new tech.
There needs to be a rethink of the job filling process, imo.
Replying to @jenwiderberg
Good point!
I imagine a longer term relationship means looking for shared values.
I find asking about how things work day to day gives clues about what the other person values.
But I know there are other ways.
Of course, there are others who just want to "sleep around." On both sides of the table.
Replying to @jenwiderberg
That's a good question... I always kinda thought interviews are a dating game 😛
a chance for two people to get to know each other to see if they're compatible enough to work together.
Replying to @jenwiderberg
Out of curiosity, what does "AVP level low 200s" mean?
Replying to @jenwiderberg
Prep smarter, not harder with Jen the Recruiter! 😄
Replying to @DellAnnaLuca
In my experience, when friction is applied to each interaction, people just find other paths of less resistance.
I remember a time when torrent sites were popular ways to exchange media files for this reason.
Human ingenuity takes it underground.
Replying to @jenwiderberg
Our desk situation is hybrid. 😆
We have shared desks, but those who go in for more than 3 or 4 days a week get a dedicated one.
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I can see more of this.
For years, some airlines have already been offering training to people with no prior flying experience with a preference for college/uni grads.
e.g. flygenesis.ca/commercial-pil…
It just makes sense for an industry in true need of help.
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💯 The most amazing people I ever worked with shared similar values, attitudes, and other soft traits & skills that aren't captured in a dashboard.
I've never seen intangibles quantified accurately.
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Meh... I don’t think it matters. A bias audit would only work if the auditors are unbiased. How can we be sure of that?
Who audits the auditors?
To stay present in a moment, I dedicate a separate time for reflection.
You can do it by dedicating time for a journal, diary, or in my case, a newsletter.
I don't have to think about what to post while traveling because I know there's time for that later.
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Maybe this is a way to screen out developers who aren't cyber secure... 🤔 😆
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Interacting with people IRL. 😛
I know I suck. But I'm working on it. 💪
Every opportunity has a cost.
Whenever I see someone boasting about making bags of money a month, I don’t just wonder how they got there.
I wonder what opportunities they gave up to get there.





