Siren, Interdisciplinary @KresgeArtsDet fellow, @JewelTonesDET https://xitter.gq/t.co/68ClbPKZnO
Detroit, MI
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no shade i’ve watched this 4 times… where is miss thing cause i wanna tell her how bad she carried on homegirl?!!?!!
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i have been ugly, broke, no job, no HOME + still had people try to play power games with me — if you’re a 10Her you have to understand that you will always be someone’s one sided competition + standard of success even when you think you’re losing because you just GOT IT LIKE THAT
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things are being canceled that have never been canceled before
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And attachment styles are transitive states. One does not have the same attachment style their whole life, hopefully everyone is striving for a secure one, and many times adapting into security happens through secure connections.
most ppl i know who are super critical of ppl with alleged attachment styles are actually the most avoidant people i know. lol. I wish instead of dog piling on folks who are obviously deeply traumatized, we would choose to be empathetic & humanize them like we do other survivors.
They will sabotage the good things and push good people away. It's unfamiliar, it doesn't feel right.
Why should this person love me when no one else does. So I will test, manipulate and sabotage this person until they prove to me that I am unlovable and leave me. Very sad!
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and NO i’m not saying to dive head first in an intimate relationship with someone who is not emotionally available or avoidant, but instead to realize that desire, intimacy and connection are complex and deeply layered subjects that have a wide range of experiences based on…
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like we need to push the needle forward on the attachment style conversation. it’s getting boring and stale. imagine being fucked up about other folks trauma and longing for love when empires are crumbling. lol. very silly.
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