Olami Lekan 🤍

I understand you sis, but personal as a woman who works and earns like a man. If I was a lesbian, ain’t no way I am giving a girl whose only responsibility is to sit at home and eat my money any “assistance”. The 1m monthly I am giving her, I am paying for it in mental and physical stress she can never endure. She sees the credit alerts and thinks it’s easy because her partner is a lawyer doing well. The time and energy i am putting in to get the money she’s enjoying, the least she can do is reciprocate by holding down her side (home care). The least she can do is make sure when I get home there is food and the house is neat. I don’t ask her to go through work stress with me. Why am I the one subjected to add to my stress to make things easier for her? Is she following me to EFCC and enduring stress all day to secure 2m fees from yahoo boys? I cannot spend my whole day perceiving body odour in SARS cell while discussing with clients, spend my entire day in court and I come home and I am expected to cook for who don dey house morning to night. Why? House wives and SAHM are in no position to complain about their partners not pitching in around the house and I say this as a woman. The only women entitled to this treatment are the ones who are sharing the financial responsibility with their man eg we both go to work and come home tired. Both of us can cook together while gisting or if he closes much earlier eg by 2pm while I close past 7 on some days, he can pitch in a little. Maybe I would have been a very financially supportive and physically unsupportive husband if I was a man, but woman wey dey house as part of my financial problems should not expect me to come back from looking for money to take care of her and still cook and clean for her. If being a SAHM is too stressful for her then she sef make she join me for street dey hustle.