Motho wa Modimo

Dear Anonza Please give your children the same level of attention and time. So if you spend an hour with the nephew studying and all, please allocate equal time to your children even if it's bonding, playing and checking their books. Strike a balance! #TheBlindSpot

The two of them need counseling. Your mother came from a loving & caring point of view,however she is wrong 4 all the threads & trauma she caused on your daughter. Your daughter's pain in valid but she also need to take accountability 4 her teenage role/mistakes. #TheBlindSpot

Dear Anonza, please take the file to your mother. Sit with her while she goes through the fle & take it from there. The thing about historical things, they always resurface in the future. Then go to the address with family, if the boy is still alive,ask for DNA. #TheBlindSpot

Relationship is a game of luck, communication, feelings, love, respect and consistency(sometimes u do all the above & end up unlucky) Meaning:u'll never know his true inventions unless if u try again Setswana:poela e aja English:Love is sweeter 2nd time around #TheBlindSpot

Anonza your wife is cruel & manipulative. You need to establish your own Madlanga commission at home, chances are you are going to uncover more lies. Please check the following: are u still married, are the children yours, is she cheating & is she still employed? #TheBlindspot

Your husband is wrong 4 not telling about the funeral. Anonza, critical questions, who's going to take care of the son now? Was the ex married & did she have other children? And was she just a girlfriend or did he pay lobola 4 her... Your dodgy husband might be on the money 💰

Anoza ke chomi ya Sipho, mara Sipho ha se chomi ya gagwe Sipho has never been comfortable enough to share his weaknesses with u or to be comfortable around,that's why he found comfort with his colleagues & other people except u Friendships can be tricky at times ##TheBlindSpot

Anonza, please seek therapy to get healing for the loss of your father. #TheBlindSpot

How's daughter & step father relationship? Is your daughter open to share with you her discomforts in general? How sure are you that husband is not making her uncomfortable with comments at home? Tell your parents what you're going through, you're in hell already. #TheBlindSpot

Your husband made a conscious decision not to assist u, he knows your financial situation & doesn't care. He is going to make sure that your daughter is uncomfortable in your home.This is the beginning, very soon he will complain about food & your child's behavior. #TheBlindSpot

The mother in law or the mother of Anonza's boyfriend must face her son and address the topic ya di DNA with him. If she has gwababa, then she must just call a family meeting and take it from there, she mustn't drag Anonza in this chakalaka mix. #TheBlindSpot

The polygamy tradition has 2 types of people: 1) Those who come from a historical background of polygamy & who choose 2 continue the tradition 2) Those who come from it BUT choose not to continue with it bcoz they have seen how it has hurt & traumatized their mother #TheBlindSpot

For the mear fact that there's no clear answer on whether he will follow the family polygamy tradition when asked,it is a clear sign that mhlaumbe, perhaps,& maybe it might happen in future not now.. He just doesn't want to say yes or no bcoz the future is unknown. #TheBlindSpot