Modern Men's Guide

A man who sleeps with 20 women is called a player. A woman who sleeps with 20 men is told her past shouldn't matter. Same number. Different reactions. And that's where the dating war begins. 🧵 1. MEN ARE PRAISED FOR OPTIONS. He dates multiple women. His friends call him a legend. He's experienced. He's winning. But would those same men want their sisters dating him? 2. WOMEN ARE JUDGED FOR THE SAME THING. She has a sexual history. Suddenly, she's not wife material. Yet the man judging her might have done everything she did. Twice. 3. THEN COMES THE "PAST IS THE PAST" ARGUMENT. Some women say their past shouldn't matter. Some men say it tells them everything. But here's the uncomfortable part: Both are allowed to have standards. Neither is entitled to a relationship. 4. THE REAL HYPOCRISY A man wants a woman with little sexual experience. But sees no reason to limit his own. A woman wants a sexually experienced man. But gets offended when he cares about her history. Preferences are one thing. Double standards are another. 5. THE QUESTION NOBODY ESCAPES If sexual history doesn't matter, why do people lie about it? And if it matters so much, why do some people excuse their own? HERE'S WHERE IT GETS PERSONAL: You can refuse to date someone because of their past. You can also refuse to date someone who judges yours. But don't demand standards you're unwilling to meet yourself. MEN: Would you marry a woman who has slept with more people than you? WOMEN: Would you marry a man with a much higher body count than yours?