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Loving. Laughing. Living. And LEARNING....

Joined June 2009
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Irrespective to my desire to go…I have definitely entered the space in this life where I believe in “showing my face” no matter what—if I’m able. I’ve never regretted showing up for people. Especially those that I love.
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This is how you build a community. By SHOWING UP in person for your people. How many times did we hear our parents say “I don’t feel like it, but I’m gonna go and show my face for a lil bit.” That’s why THEY have ppl coming out the woodwork for them whenever it’s their turn!
Birthday parties. Funerals. Hospital visits. We're raising our kids to attend anything they're invited to that's meaningful to someone else, even if they might prefer doing something else. Always go to the funeral. npr.org/2005/08/08/4785079/a…
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This is very dope.
Waited 4+ years for strap that the wearer can feel. Stroking the shaft sends signals to a vibrator inside the wearer. It finally came! And soon so am I!!!!
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i’m willing to have an uncomfortable conversation. but i’m NOT gone keep having the same one.
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I deserve to be here.
This desert retreat in Utah is crème de la crème.
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I’m a soft place to land but also a terrible woman to miscalculate.
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As soon as I opened the package—the most intoxicating smell hit me. Excited for the release of House of Sèven @sevenmaison.
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Levar Burton photographed by me 💥🎞️
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Instagram needs to give me the option to provide permission for people to send reels via DM. I’ve had a damn nough!
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I’m in love with this sentence: “Bigger dreams call for healthier habits and healthier habits require more self discipline.”
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<—-decidedly ungovernable and there’s nothing anybody can do about it ✨
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Now I can definitely attest to being viewed as selfish and uncontrollable. Folks will look at you with suspicion because you have nobody to answer to or act right For. Not being a mom or a wife , it’s like “who keeps this bitch in line?”
I think childfree women get disrespect because we’re seen as selfish, wild, uncontrollable. Single mothers are disrespected because they’re seen as failures, damaged, inadequate. All of it is misogyny however when it comes to single mothers, its almost feels retaliatory.
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Your husbands aren’t saving enough to retire themselves with dignity let alone both of you. Keep working.
I think if you are a married woman with kids who makes a modest salary and your husband is the clear breadwinner and you aren’t someone who is locked in to your career and would be cool staying at home and your husband doesn’t have the forethought to be like “daycare is gonna basically cost your entire salary anyway so just stay at home” he should be tarred and feathered
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Everyday so many of you get on the World Wide Web and confuse having an opinion with having expertise.
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Premenopausal Baddie retweeted
Gabourey Sidibe doing the Spirit Tunnel at The Jennifer Hudson Show.
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Kelly Augustine has been doing such a phenomenal job as her stylist.
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Don’t invite me to a farmers market where more than half the vendors sell jewelry, skincare, n shea butter. I want fresh bread, local honey, heirloom tomatoes, infused salts, pepper jelly, cultured butter, & an absurd variety of eggs. I came here for FOOD!
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The NMAAM does not do a good job of marketing their events.
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And why not have an activation on campus during TSU homecoming that would drive traffic to the museum? Especially considering AOB had an exhibition there over the summer. Just missed opportunities.
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The Jubilee Singers are prominently displayed in the museum…do they plan to engage Fiskite alumni during their homecoming?
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