After gaining over 700 new followers the past day, I wanted to introduce myself to all of you and reintroduce myself to current followers. Post 30 here in Miami and I talk about Bachelor life after 30 as well as various cultural, political, and social trends that impact single men. When I was in my early 20s, I used to wonder, what alternative is there to life if you don't get married and have kids in your 30s? Is it a lonely miserable existence? Well, now I am living that life and I have to say it's amazing. To get in-depth stories and my thoughts on various topics, you can also subscribe to my Substack! Link in comments below.

Being a White American guy in Europe is such a humiliation ritual that I now understand why they are generally so angry. European guys sleep with all the American girls on the trip. European girls avoid White American men like the plague, at least in Western Europe and Scandinavia. You're better off being Asian, Indian, or Arab instead of a White Anglo guy. Brits and Aussies do get a pass and do well though. However, I notice that for some reason, Black American and to an extent, Hispanic American, have an entirely different experience. They tend to clean up hard with local women in Europe. Whenever a European girl from a Germany, France, England, Scandinavia or any such place talks about her romantic one night stand with an "American" guy, you can bet that there is a pretty strong chance he was either Black or Hispanic.

Let's settle the NYC vs Miami debate when it comes to which city has the more attractive women because the answer is not so straightforward. If you like Latinas, then Miami wins hands down. NYC grossly underperforms when it comes to Latinas. You're usually dealing with ghetto Nuyoricans in most cases or some Brazilian Escort who wants a Wall Street Sugar Daddy. If you like Slavic or White European women, Miami beats NYC. It's just not close. NYC doesn't seem to attract that many good looking European expats for its size. No one wants to go out to some ethnic neighborhood in Brooklyn or Queens to get with some Russian chick whose brothers are right there ready to smash your head in. If you like White American women, NYC runs circles around Miami all day. Hordes of All American girls flooding into Manhattan year in and year out. The hottest girls from any Big 10 or SEC school. Even the hottest sorority girl is a Mid in most parts of Manhattan. Verdict? Depends on your preference, I lean more NYC but only slightly.

One thing I am noticing this year in society is elitism and exclusion making a comeback. The Private Lounge at airport was an example but it seems like the truly wealthy men and attractive women are trying to do it right. Private member only clubs instead of nightlife where the fees are high. On top of this, women who are "Woke" are on a blacklist and excluded because of their opinion. It's like we had a time period when the privileges of the wealthy were available to the masses but then the elite looked at each other and went "that's a bad idea". The elite are now disappearing, becoming harder to access, and creating more exclusion to get away from their failed experiment of luxury for the masses. Even to get into these circles, you have to be willing to do something crazy like pay thousands for a private club membership. Getting accepted into some of these clubs isn't happening unless someone in them can vouch for you.

What people don't realize about air travel is that it used to be a privilege reserved only for the rich. That meant all of these crashouts and meltdowns just didn't happen. Once everyone got access to something meant for the rich, it inflated egos and gave people a false sense of achievement. Spirit Airlines learned that this is not sustainable. If you want to see a world class case study on this, look at Europe. Riots happening en masse because poor entitled people were given free handouts and some 18 year old could hop country to country, once that free paycheck runs out, you get a collective meltdown.

One lesson I learned after staying in Europe is that sometimes, exclusiveness has its perks. Travel should not be so cheap and it should be more of a privilege than a right. The fact that it isn't is why you are stuck with British tourists acting like hooligans in Spain. Even worse, it gives some 18 year old kid who hasn't done anything of value in their life an inflated ego because they happened to take a cheap train ticket to another country to "explore culture". It creates the worst type of smugness and entitlement on the planet. Then we wonder why so many of these countries are having massive riots left and right. You literally gave free crap to people who never deserved it and inflated egos that had no business being inflated. What do you think is going to happen once you take the free crap away?

When I was in my 20s, I thought I was too old to enjoy life and traveling because people were telling me: - You SHOULD be married with kids by 30 - You SHOULD have a house and mortgage by 30 - You SHOULD have had all your fun by 30 Meanwhile, I was working long hours in my 20s trying to make a lot of money and build a savings account. Not much traveling was done as a result. Do I regret it? No. The people who were giving me this awful advice of 30 being too old: - Have aged miserably - Are heading towards a divorce - Have regressed a lot in life - Are having money problems - Are behind in life because they YOLO'd at 25 Your 20s should be about getting to work, not YOLOing.

You're not "too old" to travel. There is no rush to have that "European Summer" at 24 when you barely have the money for it, it's going to suck anyways. Far too many guys get FOMO and throw away their savings on that trip because everyone is doing it. Yeah, the chick doing it has a Sugar Daddy and the guy doing it is on a Trust Fund. You can enjoy traveling just as much in your 30s as you can in your 20s.

Maybe it is just those who follow me but I have to say, a lot of you guys are too hard on yourselves. A good number of you have the imposter syndrome. You're doing a lot better in life than most men out there. Somehow, the internet has you believing that you are falling too far behind. Is your life perfect? Not really, but not everyone can be an Elon Musk or some millionaire streamer who is 25 and can work from anywhere in the world. However, if you look at the situation of the average guy out there, you all are doing pretty well for yourselves. You just need a few tweaks here and there to go to the next level.

What I have found after years of giving 1 on 1 advice is that guys rarely take it. It's always questions, then more questions, and then excuses, and then "please give me motivation man!". The guys who are serious about turning it around have already gone out there, tried, and done a lot of the work. They are the kinds of guys who will pay for advice because they see the value in it. Meanwhile, the guys expecting you to answer all of their questions for free are the type of guys who will never actually apply the advice you give them.

In 2026, I stopped offering free advice to anyone that messaged me. The reason isn't because I am greedy, it's because after years of doing so (yeah I was that naive), I found that guys rarely took it. It would always go like this: 1. Guy DMs me for advice 2. I answer his questions 3. Guy DMs me and asks more questions 4. I answer 5. Guy gives me all the excuses and reasons he can't I am like I just wasted so much time and energy giving you advice! So I starting charging and: 1. Guys actually took the advice 2. Guys actually saw changes in their lives If guys aren't willing to invest, they aren't serious about getting better.

What you learn about self-improvement and self-help when giving guys advice is that it really only works when the guy is on the cusp. You actually can't take zero to a hero and the guys who promise that are often scammers. Example being dating coaches and PUAs who brag about turning virgins into Playboys, total scamshow. It's like being a coach of an English Premier League team and signing a guy who has never kicked a ball before. In reality, you can really only help the guys who have put in the work, tried, had some success, but come up just short. They are missing just those final few tweaks and pieces to take their Game to the next level. These are the guys that actually benefit from coaching.

A reminder for anyone who spends a lot of time on social media: - A 30 year old guy living with his parents is calling you Peter Pan - A guy in a socially repressed society is giving you advice about women and dating - A 25 year old virgin hiding behind an anime avatar is criticizing your dating life - An unemployed guy living at home thinks your career achievements aren't impressive Don't let the critics hold any weight in your life, especially when they have no merits of their own.

If there is one migrant group Americans have to fear more than any, it is Europeans. They: - Can easily get permanent residency in the US - Are highly desired by companies - Have more aura than Americans - Don't even need to work hard to command respect - Are usually Woke as well With Europe struggling, especially countries like France, many of them will be flooding into the US. Hordes will occupy major American cities, more than ever before. American men will be the most cucked from all of this too because European women aren't going to mix with you and European men will be sleeping with your women. You thought Indian and Asian migrants were bad? At least you had some social status over them if you were White due to media stereotypes. Meanwhile, Pierre from broken Woke Paris is going to take your job, your wife, and look better than you doing it. BTW, those same "Migrants" in Europe you hate? They are EU Citizens and come as a part of the package so inshallah, Bubba, inshallah.

One lesson you learn in your twenties as a man is that you will never know who your real friends are until: 1 - Beautiful women enter your life 2 - You start making a lot more money 3 - You improve in massive ways that are visible You'll quickly realize that most people you were hanging with only liked you because you were either on their level or below them. You made for a good drinking buddy to complain about life with, not a good friend to ascend with. This is why you shed so many "friendships" if you do it right and enter your 30s.

If you are in your 20s, spend a few years getting to the point where you have 18 months of rent and living expenses covered. Live with roommates if you have to. Delay gratification and living the high life while you can. Cut costs. Once you have 18 months saved up, start living your life. I know the number sounds extreme but in this day and age, you can be quickly released from your job and be on the market for up to a year before you find another one. When you are in your 20s, it's easy to live cheap. Once you get to your 30s, it is much tougher to do.

The one number you have to religiously stick to as a guy is financial runway, some call it a rainy day fund. In today's market, you will be let go of jobs and potentially have to burn through your savings to make ends meet. They say if your runway is more than a year of rent and living expenses, you can breathe a sigh of relief. However, I say you should aim for 18 months instead of a year to really feel safe. A friend of mines who is a Tech Sales AE lost his job. The market was so horrible for his industry in 2023 that it took him more than a year to find one. You just never know,

If I had to pick the one thing the guys I know who didn't amount to much in their 30s have in common, it's how comfortable their 20s were. They just stayed comfortable. Stayed at home with parents. Mom cooked them meals when they were 25. Never left that old town. Never took that big risk. Meanwhile, they laughed at and judged those who did. Then their 30s came and they realized just how behind they were.