If you were some other man, would you respect him?
Looking at yourself from outside yourself, do you respect you?
If the answer is no, simply admit to yourself the areas in life where you know you’re not doing the right things, and make those changes
Fulfillment is simple.
yeah technique could be cleaner
but I’m doing this with a spine injury 😆
before any ‘be careful’ comments.. I’m too aware of my body to do something that feels like it’s making an injury worse
packing on maximum mass, before surgery 🥂
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“I’m fat and happy”
No you’re not
You’re fat and depressed
And constantly putting energy into lying about being happy, to cope from the reality of not respecting yourself
Because, without self respect, lasting happiness can’t even bloom
You’re fat and know you need to change
We can all see the pain.
"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate..”
Carl Jung
Got my MRI results back from a bad injury I took in army training
Severe compression to my C6 and C7 vertebrae with a bone spur, crushing nerves that have kept my left pointer finger and middle fingers numb for 3mo now
Still can’t do more than 2 weak pushups and my bench press has gone from 420lbs to probably 115lbs
Symptoms haven’t changed for over 3mo now
Everything moves slowly in the military so you get barely any time for physical therapy and it took over a month to get mri results
Honestly been annoying as hell, esp as someone so used to being strong n injury free
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very gay
Replying to @holisticbaddie
Absolutely. I never kiss day one. I want to let things grow organically and the mystery isn’t so much intentional as it is just smart
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Peak psyops
Wanna know if a guy has genuine intentions? Or a quick way to humble his ego? If he tries to push for more on the first date (if you know what I mean) and you politely decline, pay attention to how he reacts. That’ll tell you everything.
Obviously there’s a time for intimacy, but at this point in my life I don’t want casual. I don’t want disrespect. I deserve to be courted, and I’m not lowering my standards for anyone. If a guy loses interest the second he realizes he has to actually put in effort, he was never interested in you to begin with.
At the end of the day, physical intimacy is something most guys want, and there’s nothing wrong with that. The difference is whether they’re willing to build something real first.
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Replying to @holisticbaddie
Some time ms I feel bad for you because you don’t get to see yourself from a male perspective and see how fucking hot you are
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“I was approached by a guy because I’m attractive and need you to know that. But the guy was beneath me, fuck him”
“But.. props to him! Because I also need you to know I’m not ruthless and self absorbed”
Bros we’ve given these females wayy too much rope
Cut the line.
It’s always them chopped motherfuckers coming up to you in Whole Foods and asking for your Instagram. I mean props to that guy though. I declined.
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