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Ibadan, Nigeria
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If a man uses providing for the home as to why women should do all domestic chores and all,you all will call it modern slavery, how is it not slavery that you want a man to single handedly cater for the home while ‘his best friend’ he married use her money for personal stuffs.
You want to marry a woman that will change her name to your name for life and give birth to children that will bear your name and you still want her to do 50/50 with you. That’s so insane.
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You both went to primary and secondary
He had tertiary education so did you
He got employed same as you.
You went through same process of empowerment
BUT only him should provide and sustain the same home you both created?
What then is the use of your empowerment?
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Charity begins at home they say, ‘ise ile lo gbe won de ita’
You need to see how those at home are justifying that global disgrace.
This is very logical and reasonable, why are they fighting for equal opportunity and all if their wages won’t be used for the smallest unit of the society not to mention the community. Let men who will give back to the society through their family be employed instead.
Had a girl-girl discussion on this idealized imbalance.
In conclusion,we are Inadvertently making a good “wage-gap” argument and to why companies should prioritize male employment if this is eventually how it’s going to manifest itself in the household and society by extension.
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The only man that doesn’t deserve financial support from his wife is those men that believe that they don’t have to do anything in the house, they leave all chores and domestic activities to their wives alone, yeah, that man no deserve support, make he do am alone too.
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Supporting your husband is part of your roles as a woman, in same vein, a man support his wife in her roles too. That is partnership.
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A man does not have to ask before a responsible adult woman supports,if he doesn’t need to be told his provision and other roles,she shouldn’t wait to be asked before she offers support too,it is part of her roles
If you ever have to ask this question as a man, you fuck up
It's only an unreasonable man who asks a woman what she brings to the table. It's the job of a man to put something on the table. A man's job is to beautiful and edify what's on the table. She does that by her support.
Well, sometimes I don't blame those men. They have been through a lot. But that doesn't justify them either. A man is a leader and a leader should always be one regardless of his subjects.
Any man who does 50:50 or asks his wife to split bills with him, even when he can is a weak man.
Above all, love God.
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If it ever gets to the stage where your man asked you this, just know there is problem.
And if anything you say can be argued by him except ‘your body’, just break up. He sees no single value in you or you really bring no value except your body.
If a man asks you, “What do you bring to the table?” there's hardly any answer he'll agree with unless you say, “My body.”
Watch them applaud that answer and use it as an opportunity to make it seem like women have absolutely nothing else to offer in a relationship.
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Temmy retweeted
Let men be men!! Women just need to go back to being feminine and sweet and let men lead. And no, I’m not saying you can’t have thoughts and feelings of your own, so don’t twist my words…
Nothing wrong with being submissive to a good man, who protects, loves, and provides!
I’m going to catch some heat for this, but I don’t care and I’m not sorry, so don’t bother lol
See them here yet they are angry they are getting global recognition, give it time, time is all that is needed
The clown who did the “dance of shame” obviously saw my tweet. 🤡🤡🤡
That tweet went far beyond what I imagined. The werey captioned me on her post on TikTok 😂😂😂😂
“Single ladies, don’t be an understanding wife oh. When you do 50/50 with your partner, the rest 50% he will carry it outside to chop other girls.”……. This is the thought process of the average Nigerian woman abroad.
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The ‘everything’ is outsourced with the man’s money so what exactly is the everything again?
It would have been hearable if women won’t call their primary responsibility ‘slavery’, they are even clamoring for ‘push gift’ as a must, I ask again, what everything?
You men must be really craz'y in the head.
So you actually want your partner to run a 50/50 with you, after everything she is going to go through in the relationship, and yet most of you will still cheat.
The primary responsibility of a man is to provide, but you still want to split bills with a woman? Then what is your essence?
Are you people okay at all?
The funniest part is that most of these men can't even attract ladies from other races in the UK.
No offense.
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No one who loves you will watch go through struggles without offering their help, NO ONE, not a spouse, not a friend or family, if you have people who claim to love you but comfortably watch you struggle, just know they NEVER love you
Many people are married to their worst enemies but claim they married their best friend. Your actual best friend would not watch you kill yourself to pay bills when they can join their income with yours to sort bills.
Being best friend is not about gossip and wearing matching outfit. When it comes to responsibility, would they give all of themselves for the relationship?
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If it were to be Nigerian man that made that observation, they would have called him broke and use saner climes for manipulation, unfortunately, na the same saner clime dey drag una yansh abi they are no longer saner clime?
Call them broke na like you would Nigerian men.
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I don’t know why they expect the same men who doenst like what they do back at home to defend them when they carry their show of shame abroad, will it be termed love when the same men start defending them?
They think men give fake love like they do
Your men are complaining about your behaviour home and abroad. Foreigners are complaining about your behaviour abroad. You are now mad your men are not defending you when foreigners complain about the same thing your men always complain about.
Behave well and your men will defend you. Fix your bad character.
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I will never understand why Nigerian women are always supporting terrible behaviors of women, is it out of place to say women are wrong when they really are?
What is this show of shame you all are whitewashing?
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Instead of calling out the degenerated behavior that led to this, it is men calling that show of shame out that is the problem, you as a Nigerian woman, shame no hold you for yansh tear you slap on their behalf?
That display of shame is unfortunately what we call standard here🤮
Broke men will forever remain slaves to validation. Men from other countries are openly disrespecting Nigerian women, and instead of standing up for women from your own country, you’re busy licking their boots for approval. Have you forgotten you have a mother, sisters, female friends and well wishers who are women? The desperation to impress foreigners by tarnishing the image of Nigerian women is pathetic. Some of you would sell your own dignity just to watch Nigerian women get disrespected. Absolutely shameful.
‘You want to keep a woman in a house and sleep with her daily, and at same time ask her to share bills?"
Yet they argue they are not OS but they want to get paid for getting laid.
This is embarrassing 🙈
You will think it’s just social media content but it’s not. Check the screenshots of their replies 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽
This is how the average Nigerian girl abroad thinks. They export this selfish mentality when leaving Nigeria and upgrade it by 10 once they land.
To find an exception amongst them is worse than finding a needle in a haystack, and I’m not exaggerating. This is why many of our men abroad die below 45yrs.
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The same Nigerian women that will sell Nigerian men for a chance to sit at the front seat of a car a foreigner borrowed?
Lets just same the treatment is even because Nigerian women do worse.
