A lot gay guy treat money as a form of freedom more than a status symbol. It buys the ability to pick your city, choose your partner, walk away from a hostile home, and create a life that doesn’t depend on relatives who might cut you off over your sexuality. Finding out you’re a bottom often means learning that a guy can be six-four, sound like a truck driver, and look like he spends his days under the hood of a car, yet still leave every major decision in the relationship up to you. 😭