WONDER 𓃵 𝞹

There is no universal convention that dictates what she should or should not do in such matters. She's an adult, relatively autonomous, and capable of making her own decisions, their low quality notwithstanding. Let her do whatever she thinks is best for her. If she thinks being in a relationship while entertaining other men is in her best interest, let her carry on If she thinks monkey-branching to another man will be beneficial, let her live her best life However, what she cannot tenably do is play the victim when her man, or any man for that matter, exercises the same freedom When her man starts entertaining other women who are interested in him, let her not wail. When her man becomes rich and decides to leave her for prettier women, let her not gnash teeth When her man leaves her because she has gained weight or developed pcos, or fibroid or cancer of the breast, let her not set up a camera and cry We will not have it. Let the woman who chooses to entertain other men while in a relationship do what she thinks is best for her. And let the man who chooses to leave his woman after she gains weight or becomes sick do what he thinks is best for him. She is free to make self interested romantic decisions, so must understand when that same freedom is exercised by her man. Shalom

True. But how come when they both reach 30, they suddenly become age mates and he is shamed for not marrying his 'mate'?