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partnered twitch streamer | I play Infinity Nikki, Palia, & Cozy Games on Twitch | *Contact me about playing your indie cozy game!* | [email protected]

Charlotte, NC
Joined January 2016
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You can join @_cuppcaake this weekend during our COSY UP FOR WISHES charity event! Join your favorite cosy content creators and check out three great #gamebundles that can help grant wishes! Check CuppCaake and others out at tiltify.com/make-a-wish-intl…!
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When you read this, keep in mind that any day, any second, the Internet hate machine could come after you. It’s relentless. It’s uninformed. Honestly at this point -if you’re an online creator, it’s only a matter of time until you’re in this position on a smaller scale. No one sees how they poke you and poke you and poke you until you finally react in anger or frustration and then you’re the bad person for reacting 🥺
This OnlyFangs stuff actually sucks. Lots of weird attack posts and people taking it too far. Putting everything in one place and washing my hands of it after this. To start, here is the response about the Dire Maul run. From my perspective I didn't feel I could save anyone else with the resources I had left even with mana gem and robe cooldowns. Since the call to run was made I followed the call and got out as quickly as possible. In every other instance where shit has hit the fan the shot-caller has called specific targets we locked in and nobody died. If you call RUN RUN RUN then everything after that is a shitshow. Yamato pinned the entire thing on me despite everyone making mistakes and this rapidly spiraled into attacks both on and offline. xitter.gq/PirateSoftware/status/… The next few days was just tens of thousands of messages berating me, sending death threats, doxxing, and all kinds of shit. This happened on Twitch, Twitter, YouTube, Steam, Reddit, Discord, and over VOIP initiated Phone Calls all at the same time. Here are a few examples from just inside of WoW to give you some understanding. xitter.gq/PirateSoftware/status/… So what do you do in this situation? You start reporting it and banning people. We took the 10,000+ attack accounts and reported them up for the organized hate raid that this is. It disrupted our broadcast on all platforms for the last 3 days and prevented our community from doing anything. That's a hate raid no matter how you slice it and it needs to be reported. We also setup automation to shut down the First Message Last Message shit stirring posts which worked to mostly positive effect. Despite all of this I kept running with the guild and kept doing dungeons with people. Got my UBRS key, had runs that were fun, and had some clutch moments as well. Then during an UBRS run another creator in the group shit talked me the entire run and spoke many times about wanting to start a fight with me over voice "For Content". I was pissed about this and said bluntly to the community that I would be reporting anyone that does things like this. Not just anyone covering the situation, anyone specifically targeting me to make "Content" out of it by directly disrupting our broadcast. The idea that you shouldn't fight back or do anything to defend yourself is absurd. Absolutely do something about shit like this. Defend yourself and report that kind of behavior. It doesn't matter what size of creator you are that doesn't belong on any of these platforms. This was posed as a "Content Guild" which to me meant we were crafting stories and narratives around our characters and achievements. Not content at any cost which this clearly has become. For those in the guild that reached out to me after all of this, thank you. Was fun running together and maybe we will again one day in a different game.
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✨1st Major Update - Coming Nov 18th✨ Mounts are coming to Mistria! Your mount can be summoned anywhere outside and has its own Skill Perks to obtain. The new mount quest will unlock after completing the "Repair Hayden's Barn" questline!
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We are looking for a Pixel Artist to join our team! For more details and to apply, visit fieldsofmistria.com/hiring-a… 🎨
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Not just a streamer, but a person online… people will try to take control of your narrative. People will twist things and say whatever they need to say to sell whatever story they’re trying to sell. You cannot control other peoples actions -only yourself. You just have to hope that enough people can see through the bullshit.
What’s the hardest lessons you’ve had to learn as a streamer ?
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I recolored my Pink Mercy emote to match her new Rose Gold skin!! This two pack is available for FREE for the next 24 hours on Ko-Fi, and will be up permanently on Etsy for a paid download Posting both links below! 💕💕
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The forest is my favourite level! And Cuppcaake explains here why it's the best, beautifully (it's the spinny platforms...) Which is your favourite? #PaperTrailGame #PuzzleGames #IndieDev #ScreenshotSaturday @_cuppcaake
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I know the sub price changing is upsetting to a lot of people. So if you prepay for 3 months of the current price before it changes, that'll hold you over til "subtember". Then lock in another 6 months prepaid during that discount. You'll end up with 9 months of <$5 a month 🤍
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Super impressed of how well @_cuppcaake is tackling the switch to variety. Very inspiring. Definitely go check out her new content if you need cozy vibes in your life.
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Mental Health Awareness Panel starts NOW!!!! Mental health is so important- please remember to take care of yourself! Thank you to @WATCHHOLLIE - @RealMexicanJok1 - @LadyAmelthea - @PhianixxTV - @_cuppcaake For joining us - I really appreciate it❤️ twitch.tv/SerenaPariss
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Happiest of birthdays to my beautiful wife and love of my life!! I can't wait to spend many, many more with you and continue our life together until we are old and gray!!. I love you @_cuppcaake
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Maybe healing is growth, it’s feeling uncomfortable emotions, and it’s recognizing that our journeys can look similar and completely different at times—and that’s perfectly OK. We invite you to read “Messiness of Emotional Healing” by Amy Bartlett at wrt.lv/4bkM4Zz.
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This may be cheesy but I lost a lot of "friends" in the streaming space when I was at my lowest low. This helped me cope and maybe someone else can find comfort from it. "And some family/friends know and understand, they just suck. Sorry to be so blunt, but it is the truth. Some may even enjoy seeing you down like that and will take advantage in whatever way they can. Whether it be getting other family members/friends to cut you off, to ruin your reputation..." quora.com/Why-do-friends-and…
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New Video Premiere TODAY at 5pm EST! I waited a WHOLE YEAR to open Squish Mail.. do I still love? Or regret?! Find out with me! ⭐️youtu.be/msErjWfaCCs
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We got to play Overwatch 3
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Everyone in this photo isn’t usually awake at this time yet, so this is a very special occasion – at Irvine, CA
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A bunch of support mains actually touching grass??
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Wait till you see us on our bikes
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Spirit sprinkles 🍩✨
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