Ajibike✨

Long rant def I’m always wary of people who don’t seem to have boundaries when it comes to their personal lives and ambitions. Like, how can somebody tell you not to pursue your master’s degree and you actually agree because you’re in love? Or you give someone the money you’ve put aside for your tuition when you need that money yourself? I’m not even talking about relationships alone. I think everybody should have certain lines that people cannot cross, regardless of how much you love them, how much you trust them or how close you are. There should be things you are simply not willing to compromise on. Your education, your health, your relationship with God, your personal development, your financial security, your ambitions. I know there are nuances to these things. (okay to disagree). That you are so accommodating that anybody can talk you out of something important to your future or convince you to give up something you genuinely need. Whew! You should have things that are simply not up for negotiation.

Yes one of my guy. High bp medicine de always de in back pocket

No lies ooo I experienced this and ran😂😂😂😂 I got a job that will pay me more than what I was earning and he told me to stay and not take the new job. Mumu mi accepted because I wanted to be a loyal fiancée 😂😂. One day my dad called me and asked about my job search and I told him I got a job but my fiancé said I should not take it😂😂 My dad asked me if it was my fiance who sent me to school 😂😂, I called the HR and told him I accepted the offer😂😂. When he got to know that I accepted the offer, he said I was not submissive😂😂 He served me breakfast the day I got qualified as a chartered accountan because he failed all the papers he wrote at the skills level😂😂😂 This guy said I was moving faster than him 😂😂😂, to think he was an accountant and I was building my life around him. I was already thinking we would have an amazing career and have a firm in future 😂😂😂. As an ambitious woman, shine your eyes well oooo, any man that won't support your dream, run ooo and also make sure you are a supportive woman too