Real relationship truths. No sugarcoating. Event Host | Media Personality | Relationship Strategist | YouTube Page: https://xitter.gq/t.co/ahuzKoODEC
Lagos, Nigeria
Joined February 2020
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During your younger years you were getting dirty and making the sacrifices to become the man these women desire today. She was accumulating body counts during her prime. You're in your prime and she's in her decline. If you accept her, it's a crime. You will regret it with time.
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God we are grateful for how far you've brought us. Often, when things are going well people keep quiet and when it's stormy, they are quick to complain as if nothing good has ever happened. If we say we don't have any good news, then we are not truthful. Thank you for everything.
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When I got laid off from Microsoft, I got into a company in Lagos that felt paying 600k naira a month was doing me a favour. I had to take the offer to keep body and soul together.
Was there for 6 months until I fell out with the MD and started looking out. That was when I started my training outfit but couldn't quite get traction.
Anyway, after leaving this NGO, I spent another 5 months in the wilderness, literally. Ate rejections almost every other day. Was living on the goodwill of friends and relations. Basically wondering what to get out of life.
An Antler rep came knocking at the time and was in the process of fast tracking my application to the Antler cohort at Kenya. Guess what? My passport had expired. Ran to go fast track my passport, after a few days emailed the partner but was told it was too late.
I remember laying in my room laughing hysterically, mulling to myself, "who I offend?"
Thankfully at that time, I applied to Andela and the process started for another 2 months. I got into Andela and my monthly salary was my previous annual salary. This trend continued in a subsequent company. Use am run one or two that year.
But the point is, while I was enjoying this new reality, I asked myself, "why did you worry all those times?" In hindsight, there was no reason to. I should have just chilled for 5 months, enjoyed myself.
But we are human and can only understand life in hindsight. As long as you believe this it will work out for you: EVERYTHING will turn out better than you expected, just stop worrying.
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
When the family of your partner rises up against you, the love you have for each other will not save you.
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A man's role in the home is leadership. Leadership is not same as killing yourself to carry all the financial responsibilities that are beyond you.
Your leadership as a man is there by default. By virtue of accepting to marry you, she has trusted you with the leadership of the home to act in the best interest of the family.
You work with your wife in unity, investing time, resources from both parties and selves in running the home.
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
Noticing red flags in relationships is as important as reading road signs.
That's what will tell you how fast to move, where to take U~turns, when to speed, when to cross lanes and be on one lane.
Remember, love doesn't conquer all things. The following points will help you:
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When they copy you, they always have to wait for you to make a move before they make theirs.
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Things I have learnt from previous relationships:
Even when you want to break up, do it peacefully because you might again meet the person in future.
Never you trust a woman, even when they seem loving and caring, they can easily backstab & betray your love & trust for them.
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
Everyday you are closer to victory.
I can't wait to see you post your testimonies of "God did" and "And it came to pass"
I can't wait to celebrate you. You've persevered despite the odds, sleepless nights and lonely days.
You deserve your flowers.
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
Kings,
You hustled through sacrifice and pain to get where you are. Now that you've made it, how do you buy new cars, new homes, new clothes but somehow forget to get yourself a young feminine virgin girl. Even if you don't love & value yourself, Please Respect your sacrifices.
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
Go out and talk with strangers if you must go far in your business. If most family and friends can't support you in pain when you have a problem what makes you think they will support your business? So, why wait for them? It's stranger that will change the face of your business.
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
normalize being okay with letting people think what
they want about you. The idea that you’re going to be liked, validated, or accepted by everyone is an illusion. your peace, mental health and happiness is more important than other people's perceptions, opinions, or approval of you.
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Wanting to look important to others has no benefit.
Perform for no one. Do you want to climb to the top so the world can see you, or so you can see the world?
If you deep it you’ll realize most of your decisions are for the acceptance of others. Focus on improving not proving
Auxiliary Doctor retweeted
True. I don't know about holding them tighter than men, but women have a very strong and long access. People tend to underrate women's access.
As long as men keep showing interest in a woman, her connections keep growing stronger. She can leverage them whenever she chooses to. Women enter places you dream up because of access.
Because she knows the man likes her, if she make the introduction, it usually clicks because he is trying to please her. Connection is Connection. How you get it, no concern anybody.
To get a man's attention, go through his friends or a woman he likes/a woman that knows he is attracted to her.
