Nice perspective.
Glad I am in a position to speak on this as a financially stable woman.
The problem is that at the core of your stability, you still see relationships as transactional and not mutually symbiotic.
It’s still “what can I get from him” not “what can we do together”.
Your financial stability does not change the fact that you’re still in the market for the highest bidder.
Chickens and peacocks are sometimes sold in same market. Because one cost pass and get class pass no mean say e no still Dey for sale.
When you stop seeing relationships as transactions, you will understand why you need a man who genuinely loves you regardless of his finances.
That’s why a lot of you become the archetypal “stingy, toxic but financially stable ex”.
You can date a man when he has money but once he goes through a hard time, you start disrespecting him, you start going out with other “rich” men, you turn every financial support you offer him into an insult and at the end when he leaves when things get better for him again, you come up with “after everything I did for him” but what you did was kick a man who was already down.
Just do your okpo work with your full chest and stop using the guise of “I can pay my bills so why do I need a man”. You still dey find who to pay your bills not who to love.
A real financially stable woman does not prioritize a man’s finances over the countless other benefits of love, relationships and marriage.
She knows he can be broke today but as long as he is grinding, anything can change for him in the blink of an eye. She focuses on what they can achieve together. Not what he can do for her alone.
Expensive digging farm tool 🥲
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Asumsi yg cukup lucu.
Ya ngapain juga pdkt ma wanita pekerja keras atau princess klo asumsinya gt?
Pdkt ma wanita pekerja keras bisa dilabeli mokondo, pdkt ma princess bisa engap sendiri.
So, para laki pada hirarki tengah perlu menikmati hidup sendiri. 😌☕️
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Makin dewasa, circle pertemanan makin mengecil, mainnya pun sama yang itu-itu aja. Rangorang yang akan selalu ada tak hanya di kala senang. Di saat susah pun mereka nongol paling duluan.
... and that, is quality over quantity.
Guys, bakal sulit nyari partner kek gini tuh.
Krn fokusnya tentang apa yg kamu dapat.
Padahal kamu bisa tau hal² semacam itu dari habit keseharian ybs.
Contoh gw deh, ga suka dibentak/dipisuhi. Harga mati soal komunikasi.
Gw tanya, kamu klo marah gmn? Ada sample kasus ga?
🤣 gw nyawah pun juga banyak tau ttg berbagai fantasi, faktor ketidaksengajaan ada, sengaja cari² bacaan/media juga ada.
Ketidaksengajaan : nemu buku stensil, obrolan random ma orang².
Sengaja belajar : baca², movie, skenario imaji.
Lagian secara natural juga auto mimpi enak.
Ga pernah kaget urusan perawatan ini krn udah tau dari jaman sekolah sering diskusi sama temen² cewe.
Bahkan urusan fashion luar dalam pun gw tanyain. Keknya jaman muda gw lebih banyak mempelajari kebutuhan wanita daripada diri gw sendiri. 😭
Masih PR kebutuhan emosi aja. 😪
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😅 jelasss, natural & casual itu lebih jujur.
Golden rasio bisa langsung kebaca.
Otentik, percaya diri & membumi.
Ini hal sederhana perkara ketertarikan jalur visual. Panjang sih klo dibahas, haha.
Ngreview diri sendiri juga gt sih, lebih interest ke individu yg natural look.😌
Gw aja heran ma WNI yg punya kecenderungan poligami. 🤣 kok bisa?
Lu WNI cuy, Warga Negara Indonesia!
Satu partner aja kemungkinan butuh energi banyak buat sinkron, sabisanya mau nambah. Sangat tidak rasional.
Nyari satu partner yg TEPAT aja sulit, sabisanya kepikiran nambah.
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NAIKKAN ALGORITMANYAA GUYSS ‼️
BIAR KOMDIGI LEMBUR MALAM INI
Keadaan di sarinah se chaos ini huaa stay safe semua yang di sana 😭
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Why plant cassava so close together? 🌿
Indonesian farmers have turned it into a clever living fence that also provides food.
The stems are planted tightly and supported with bamboo and rope. As the leaves grow thicker they create a natural barrier to keep chickens and ducks out.
The best part? The leaves can be eaten and the starchy roots harvested later.
A simple idea that turns one plant into both protection and food. Zero-waste farming at its best! 👏
Mau cari jodoh lewat jalur manapun, itu hanya jalan. Worth it tidaknya hanya sebuah keberuntungan. 🤣
So, seberapa beruntung dirimu di dunia ini?
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Ada ga sih perempuan yg emosionalnya tuh pake deadline gt?
Jadi ga lama², marah ya bentar, ngambek bentar, bawel bentar, manja bentar, nangis bentar.
Bukan yg bentar² nangis, bentar² marah, bentar² ngambek, bentar² manja. 😓
Mbokyao sing tenang stabil ngunu lho ah 😩
