🎨🎙️📝Chell | COMMS OPEN 📝🎙️🎨18+

If you're unwilling to change anything about your life for the sake of a child, you have no business bringing one into it in the first place (if you're pregnant or got someone pregnant, its to late), and if you do, find someone who is willing to step up where you couldn't. There are people out there willing to give up everything to raise a child. Love isn't just about finding someone who accepts you as you are. It's also about being willing to grow for the sake of someone you love and recognizing that your choices no longer affect only you. Maturing in love is realizing your desires aren't the highest priority, and that commitment means something even when it becomes hard. You cant build a family while insisting that every part of your life remain exactly as it was before you had one. Love requires sacrifice, and I don't think the creators of Helluva Boss understand that. Its the same old tired liberal programming message that replaces real deal expectations with selfishness and greed, while trying to sound profound. I wouldn't want a partner who never challenges me to be a better person. Having a "Yes Woman" to everything im doing and to everything I am will just make me a person who can't see past himself, a person who never grows for the better, and a man becomes stagnant in every walk of life. I'd love a wife who was willing to tell me, "You need to man up and quit that, be the man God is calling you to be", "No, you're being a jerk and you don't see it" or, "You're putting yourself before this family." A woman who loves me enough to call me out when I'm wrong, challenge my thinking when it's misguided, and refuse to let me wallow in habits that are making me a worse man or preventing me from becoming the man she has faith I can be.