spiraling into control

Joined August 2012
Birthday nails
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I’m baffled by all the discourse around this. So many grown adults who don’t understand the concept of a courtesy invite
My friend wants to plan a couples, no-kids weekend getaway, splitting the cost of a large AirBNB, in January for her 30th birthday. I really do not love this idea (husband is mortified), neither to spend the money nor to get someone to take the toddler for 3 days. It would be a 2.5 hour drive away for us, too, so it’s not like we’re close if something happens. I haven’t been away from him for even 1 night yet and he still just seems so young! It would be very hard to leave him for that long. Am I just a party pooper who needs to get over it? Genuine question. Like I actually need advice here guys
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If you politely decline the invite and your friend gets mad about it then you can complain. But an invitation is just a way to make you feel included. Most people choosing to do something like a birthday trip (or destination wedding) expect that some people wont able to come
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In fact, a lot of people choose to do a destination birthday/wedding precisely because they want less people to come. Like ultimately they might even be hoping you turn down the invite! An invite is not presumptuous!
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Counter-take: The logic of international solidarity - that what happens in Brazil (from Amazon protection to viral pandemics) matters for what happens in the United States - has never in history been more plainly important.
Earnest take: I think it’s probably not healthy for the practice of democratic self-government that so many people have developed strong rooting interests in elections in countries they don’t live in.
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everything i know about the zionist cheating scandal is against my will, but it’s really funny that people act like cheating someone is the worst thing someone could possibly do. when idk killing kids is worse
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Vucic out of power, Bolsonaro defeated
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Also to the Albanians who say this isn’t a good thing because they wanted Serbians to suffer… you have rocks for brains. Edi Rama will be next ishallah
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Guys please stop DM’ing me this was about Vucic not Luka
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Lula of Brazil at a steelworkers union event in 1977.
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Beast mode
La gente más blanda de esta red social en modo: "Ganó la derecha, ya no hay nada que hacer" Mientras tanto Lula: "Al pueblo le gusta que vaya a segundo turno, y yo soy muy bueno ganando en el mata-mata"❤️‍🔥
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This photo is like the memories you had from Albania when you were little
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Too many people don’t understand aging. Not everyone is getting buccal fat removals and blephs they’re just getting older
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upper bleph is a crime
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For the aging doesn’t change the shape of your eyes crowd… here is me, 10 years apart, no bleph, more eyelid show
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I don’t believe in “eye cream”
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Lebanese Forces x Lana Del Rey edit
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Poo crave is the closest thing we have to a 2020’s Clickhole
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i love her
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Went to the new Texas barbecue place in my neighborhood with the crazy lines
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Going at 11am on a workday the line was only about 4 people long and the green spaghetti was absolutely divine. Bbq sauce could have been tangier and spicier imo (salt lick spicy bbq sauce is the platonic ideal) but the meat was very solid. I need to go back and try the pork belly and turkey
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