yap central. 24, they/she, gay as hell for @FenixFright
queen of wasteland, baby!
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exactly a year since this post and its still so crazy that he's back with me, and as happy and sweet as could be <3 i thought he was dead a year ago, couldn't have ever fathomed getting him back, and especially not him being the same incredibly sweet boy he was in his youth
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๐งตthread of free online DBT material for those suffering with BPD and cannot afford specialized therapy:
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itโs fucked up that when youโre abused a bunch and it affects you, youโre the one who has to work on yourself and not the person who did it to you itโs like one last fuck you from youโre abuser
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I honestly have no idea how yall expect ppl with a life debilitating disorder that torments you & makes you feel like youโre actually dying during episodes youโre detached from reality / logical reasoning to be in accord to your moral standard, esp when theyโre unmedicated
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This is likely due to OPT-IN policy on this platform. And if you ever see my name or icon on this. It is not true and complete bullshit.
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The popularization of therapy speak has done enormous collective social damage. Yes, the meltdowns of people with BPD are manipulative, in the same way that it's manipulative to scream for help when you're in danger, or for a person with cancer to post a gofundme. Any attempt
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I feel like more people now are so quick to turn on somebody with mental illnesses the moment the ugly starts showing through the cracks. Itโs not encouraging to feel like you have a support system when those people would be inclined to leave you in the dirt at your worst.
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Bpd is more then just crashouts. Itโs a lot of silent lonely suffering, beating yourself up over things from years ago, not letting yourself get close to people etc. We need help but we need understanding too, we didnโt ask for intense emotional mood swings.
also i'm not saying people should excuse bad behavior or that people with bpd shouldn't take accountability, but i'm BEGGING y'all to understand that there's nuance and that people with bpd are unwell. this mental illness insanely painful to live with and navigate
the way people villianize bpd and dismiss breakdowns as being manipulative or attention seeking is a huge part of why so many of us with this disorder kill ourselves or try to. the world loves to kick mentally ill people when they're down
seeing this scene on my tl has been frying me because the one and only time i've had the misfortune of this show plaguing my dreams, it was genuinely almost this EXACT scenario. i've been waiting for it to actually happen ever since. most predictable vivziepop plot
