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Husbant … . . we are homeles
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my program I am so fire
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Lots of BPD discourse on the tl and im just curious what people thought the ‘frantic and extreme lengths to avoid real or perceived abandonment’ in the diagnostic criteria meant. I don’t think it always looks like sagely asking for help within Twitter Acceptability margins
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Splitting feels like being on fire and someone is sat there with an opioid but they won’t give it to you because they don’t believe you’re actually hurting that much. yea you do extreme shit to make them understand your pain. neglected child rationale
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obviously manipulation shouldn’t be excused on grounds of mental illness but trying to tone-police an active split is applying rational logic to the irrational. people can manipulate on purpose, and people can act in extreme ways to avoid distress that will read as manipulation
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bpd is notoriously a disorder that is near impossible to regulate alone. because it stems from chronic invalidation trauma, it makes sense that the individual who never learned to self-soothe will rely so heavily on external crutches (other people). this is why DBT is important.
The way people call this manipulative or evil is actually pretty triggering. Like okay maybe he should have distanced himself from these people. But also i can see his perspective here. Idk man, if you ghost someone with BPD and make them spiral you're a piece of shit.
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these texts gave me a series of slumdog millionaire style flashbacks to being Fifteen and unmedicated
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pushing 18? so, 16 and 17? 😭
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I don’t even know if im Getting a tattoo. i have not communicated well. I wanted something and then did not. I want to plan my sleeve. I desperately do not want these fugly blackberries i picked like 1 month ago on a whim
Fuck my life bro i’ve got a tattoo consultation tomorrow at 11 in the bomboclart morning but i already rescheduled once
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Fuck my life bro i’ve got a tattoo consultation tomorrow at 11 in the bomboclart morning but i already rescheduled once
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My christian right to sertraline
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you cant stay mad at me (God's most promising & innocent angel) forever
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Replying to @cups45
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sleep In you banana nest!! 🥹🍌💤
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Gg fuggin healing 🥹
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Im withdrawing from my sertraline so gnarly life feels like this
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ppl who say this are CIA-level gender binary enforcers. you cant deconstruct the sex/gender binary while treating men and women as distinct species incapable of understanding or loving each other. neither cishet nor queer love is inherently radical, its just love 😬
my bad for being on tumblr ig but this take made my eyes roll back into my head. your idea of relationships has been corrupted by the transactional nature of the bourgeois family. there is nothing queer about a cishet couple, and you don’t have to call it queer to denote goodness
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i feel like this was the driving understanding of pansexuality once upon a time
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not touching on the capitalist distortion of love element cause its been 6 years since i studied marxfem and i really cba
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crazy to think that u used to literally have 180 characters on here . how did anyone say anything
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I have “I was thrown go the wolves” autism & i usually clash with “My family got me treatment and safety nets” autism because they think im not autistic cus i can dress
do you ever start talking to someone and realize you have noticeably incompatible autisms
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