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Anyway, being a good lover is not an identity you declare for yourself. It’s an experience other people have of you. Your intentions and perception of yourself don’t always align with the impact you have on the people you love. You can mean well and still fall short.
Oh 😔
I’m gonna hold your hand while I say this ladies…
Normalize losing interest in a man the moment you spend more time decoding his behavior than enjoying his presence. Stop romanticizing mixed signals. Clarity is attractive. Consistency is sexy. And peace is nonnegotiable. Skip this sabbatical season.
midnight, listening to yoruba bata rhythms, dancing barefoot in the dark, pink satin nightwear, beads rolling loosely around my waist.
Arinlade is smiling.
