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Teaching families Relationship, not religion - that is my passion.

North of the GTA
Joined February 2009
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Joseph of Arimathea took down a corpse. Hands still sticky with blood. Skin already cold. Touched death. Held it. Wrapped it. Became ceremonially unclean for Passover. For a dead man. Here's what most Christians miss about the burial of Jesus: Joseph was a wealthy man. A member of the Sanhedrin. A respected Jew. And Passover was 3 hours away. The holiest day of the year. But he climbed Golgotha anyway. Jewish law was clear: Touch a dead body = unclean for 7 days. Can't worship. Can't celebrate. Can't enter the temple. Joseph knew this. He'd spent his entire life following these laws. But Jesus was still hanging on that cross. Picture it: The crowds are gone. The soldiers drunk. The women weeping. Joseph approaches Pilate—the man who just murdered his Lord—and asks permission. "Can I have the body?" Pilate grants it. Now Joseph has to actually DO it. He walks to Golgotha. Blood-soaked dirt. The smell of death. Three crosses against the sky. Jesus in the middle. Still. Finally still. Joseph climbs the ladder. Grabs the first nail. Pulls. Feel the weight of that moment. God's body in your arms. The blood isn't dry yet. It stains his expensive robes. His hands. Under his fingernails. He can taste the iron in the air. This is what obedience looks like. Messy. Expensive. Permanent. Nicodemus shows up. Another secret disciple. Another Sanhedrin member. He brings 75 pounds of myrrh and aloes. That's about $150,000 worth of burial spices in today's money. Two wealthy men. Two cowards until now. Finally brave when it's already too late. They work fast. Sabbath is coming. They have maybe 3 hours. Wrap the body. Pour the spices. Seal the tomb. The sun is setting. Joseph is now officially unclean. Can't celebrate Passover tomorrow. Can't enter the temple for a week. Think about what he just gave up: His ceremonial purity. His Passover celebration. His reputation (everyone saw him bury a "blasphemer"). His position (the Sanhedrin won't forget this). His safety (Romans might come for disciples next). All for a dead man. But here's what most Christians miss: Joseph didn't do this expecting resurrection. He did it expecting NOTHING. Jesus was dead. Gone. Finished. This wasn't faith in resurrection. This was love for a corpse. That's the part that wrecks me. Joseph touched death—literally—knowing it meant giving up everything. Not because Jesus promised him anything. But because Jesus deserved honor even in death. Modern Christianity wants clean obedience. Safe obedience. Obedience that doesn't cost you Passover. But Joseph shows us something different: True discipleship gets your hands dirty. You want to follow Jesus? Then stop avoiding the messy parts. Stop waiting for clean opportunities. Stop demanding that obedience be convenient. Joseph climbed Golgotha when everyone else went home. He wrapped a corpse when he could've stayed clean. He missed the holiest day of his life to honor a dead "criminal." He risked everything when there was no visible reward. That's not religion. That's worship. The twist? Three days later, that tomb was empty. Joseph gave his grave to Jesus. Jesus left it empty. Forever. Joseph thought he was burying God. He was actually setting the stage for resurrection. Your messy obedience? God's using it too. Even when you can't see it. So here's the question: What are you avoiding because it's too messy? What obedience are you postponing because it's inconvenient? What grave are you unwilling to give? Joseph of Arimathea held death in his arms. Got blood on his hands. Missed Passover. Lost his reputation. And earned his name in all four Gospels. Religion says "stay clean." Discipleship says "get dirty." Joseph chose discipleship. What are you choosing? —TBM
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How do Christian parents succeed in passing on their religious convictions to their children? A 35-year longitudinal study asked that question. And it found two things that were surprising. One, fathers matter more than mothers. If the father is committed to his faith, the children are more likely to follow him. In short, fathers wield influence, whether they want to or not. Of course, mothers also have influence, but not as much. My female students say that’s not fair.  And I say, I’m sorry, it’s a fact. The second finding was that, to have that influence, the father has to have a warm, loving relationship with the child.   It doesn't matter if he was a leader in the community, a pillar of the church, a moral exemplar.  If he is perceived as cold and distant, his children will not follow him. thedisciplemakingparent.com/…
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Up at Nicæa, bishops pause – Arius and Santa Claus! One claims a time when the Son was not; One says that’s a heretical thought. Ho! ho! ho! Who’s gonna go? Ho! ho! ho! Who’s gonna go? Off with a left hook, good St. Nick; Down goes the dirty heretic.
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Dear Rest of the World, Canada will be unavailable on Monday, June 24, 2024 at 8:00 PM for approximately 3 hours. Thank you for your kind understanding.
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110% true.
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There is no version of Christianity that permits you to continue sinning just because of God’s love for you. True love inspires true obedience.
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★☆☆☆☆ "Hey Pastor, could we talk?" ★★★★★ "Hey Pastor, could I ask you a quick question next week? Nothing bad, just wanted your advice on ____” One question probably reminds your pastor of an ambush in his past. The other leaves him thankful.
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The chances of becoming a pro-athlete - .02%. The chances of standing before a holy God - 100%. Sports can be good for your kids, but they can’t be God for your kids. Help them keep the right priorities in order.
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I’m trying to avoid the circus, But you keep retweeting the clowns.
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Are we teaching our kids that Sunday is the day we go to church, or the day we try to squeeze in church? —@RevKevDeYoung
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There’s a popular cliché constantly shared with young people, “It’s okay to not be okay.” That’s a good starting place, but the Gospel goes further than that. It’s okay to not be okay, but it’s not okay to stay that way, when God has provided another way. Jesus is the way!
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Theology 101: They say the book of Revelation is scary. You know what’s scarier than the book of Revelation? Half the books written about the book of Revelation.
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I see that a Norwegian Blue cheese has won the top award at the World Cheese show This is the first parrot-flavoured cheese to win an award
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People say, “I don’t have to go to church to be a Christian,” and they are right. Salvation is through faith alone in Christ alone. You also don’t have to go home to be married—but stay away long enough, and your relationship will be affected. —@DrTonyEvans
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As parents, when our actions tell our kids that chasing a ball is a greater priority than chasing Christ. Commitment to hobbies is a greater priority than commitment to Church. Then, we can’t be surprised when Christ and Church is a low priority to them when they become adults.
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