tommy 🐶

let me be honest. i’ve been here since the very beginning so i don’t need anyone telling me how JD have treated their fans. i have eyes to see for myself ears to hear JD speak for themselves a brain to think things through and a heart to feel what i’ve experienced. let me make one thing clear: i don’t claim to know them inside out. i’m neither their friends nor their family so i have no way of knowing or judging how they treat the people in their personal lives. but as someone who has been their fan for five years i can confidently say that they have never treated me badly. i’m not claiming to be the person who supports them the most in every possible way either. but just look at my account. 2/3 of my time is dedicated to them. i’ve invested my time effort and money in supporting them. so i have every right to say this out loud: the affection JD show in return to their fans is in no way less than what the fans have given them .. especially from the 19th until now what exactly have they done wrong? what have they done to deserve being blamed? not only have they done nothing wrong to their fans but they’ve also continued to worry about their fans’ pain while dealing with their own. at this point i genuinely don’t understand why some people. if you feel that they no longer respect you then perhaps you should look at yourself in the mirror first. ask yourself what you’ve done how you’ve treated them and whether you’ve respected the boundaries that should have been there all along. clear boundaries don’t drive genuine relationships apart. they simply reveal which relationships were never genuine in the first place. being fair and straightforward is also a form of kindness. why should they have to keep making concessions for you over and over again just cause you call yourself a fan? being a fan doesn’t give you the right to demand whatever you want nor does it give you permission to hurt others and then expect them to understand. remember good people don’t necessarily have to be agreeable all the time. sometimes kindness means having the courage to be honest to set boundaries and to treat everyone fairly. and i’m only addressing those who genuinely consider themselves JD’s fans. as for those who have never supported them not even in the slightest all this time those who never cared about their journey but are suddenly so eager to stick their noses into this situation and pass judgment today without even knowing what actually happened please just keep quiet. you’ve said more than enough already. not everything requires your interference and having an opportunity to speak doesn’t mean you have the right to judge other people’s lives and choices. instead of spending so much time scrutinizing and discussing people you never genuinely cared about in the first place, go back and focus on your own life. if you can’t even take care of your own business don’t be so quick to concern yourself with everyone else’s