Georgetown ’28. future sports lawyer. current problem | $mycashtag1890
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I think the part we don’t interrogate enough is why someone with decades more life experience would consistently prefer people who have barely begun adulthood.
The age gap itself is less interesting to me than what the attraction to the gap is doing for you.
I’m 27 & I wouldn’t even date a 20 year old. There’s a HUGE difference in life experience, maturity, and where people are in life at those ages. So please don’t tell me “grown people are gonna do what they want to do,” because honestly, my eyebrow raises at you too😭 To me, it gives weird.
I’m not talking about anybody specific rn. I’m speaking generally. I personally could never see myself in my late 30s, 40s, or 50s pursuing somebody who is 20 or 21. What the fuck are you loving, learning, or connecting over with somebody that young? And let’s keep it a buck: some people would date even closer to 18 or 19 if “teen” wasn’t attached to the age.
Yes, they’re legally adults. But some things are legal and still not something I’ll pursue, nor something I want normalized around me. Just because the age makes something legal does not automatically make it morally correct to me. Period💯‼️