Former nun + contemplative writer helping high-achieving women quiet the after-work mind through micro-mindfulness. Start with one sentence. ⬇️

Edmonds, WA
Joined February 2014
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Choose a five-minute pause and pencil it into your calendar, with the same care you give a meeting.
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A Word for the Afternoon Before you close your journal, choose a word to take with you. Perhaps the word is listen. At three in the afternoon, someone begins explaining a problem. Your mind starts assembling an answer, and the morning word returns. Listen. You give the person a little more time. As they continue, you hear something that helps you understand. In the Micro-Mindfulness Method, I call this Carry. A word you wrote at the kitchen table finds its way into a conversation. What you heard in the quiet morning begins to shape how you meet another person.
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Over time, I came to value that same listening in the middle of an ordinary workday.
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A Few Seconds Before the Next Thing During my years at Microsoft, I learned to value the seconds before a call and the moment after pressing Send. My attention had somewhere to gather. You may recognize this at the kitchen table. Your hands are around a warm cup while your mind moves through the meetings ahead. Feel the chair beneath you. Let it hold your weight. Notice where the morning light falls. In the Micro-Mindfulness Method, I call this Arrive. You give yourself a few seconds to register where you are, then turn toward what comes next.
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That takes energy, too: the quiet effort of proving yourself again.
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Try this over your next cup of coffee or tea.
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Let that noticing become one small choice.
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Writing down your thoughts is only half the practice. Revisiting your journal entries reveals the subtle emotional patterns steering your burnout. When you notice recurrent stressors, you move from feeling overwhelmed to making intentional shifts.
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A simple micro-reflection habit to close out a chaotic workday: • 3 Wins: Celebrate small victories to restore perspective and confidence. • 1 Learn: Identify a single adjustment or lesson without self-criticism. Balanced reflection keeps your inner critic quiet while keeping your growth steady.
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You’ve been saving these things for a day with more room.
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Reflection for today: What am I noticing about my life today? Be mindful. Pay attention. Take notes. Repeat. Life-changing.
The value of the practice lives in what you notice about your life.
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An intention is not a to-do list. It’s a guiding principle for how you want to show up. Instead of "I'll finish my project," try: "I will bring focus and patience to my work today." Anchor that intention to something tangible you do every morning—your first sip of tea or a quiet breath before checking your phone.
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In a world that glorifies the grind, stopping is a quiet act of defiance. Schedule 5-minute pauses across your workday just as you pencil in meetings. Step away from your desk, close your eyes, and reset. Treat these moments as non-negotiable appointments with yourself.
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The value of the practice lives in what you notice about your life.
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Here are three mistakes that can make this practice harder than it needs to be.
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The biggest hurdle with mindful journaling is thinking you need to fill pages. You don't. A single sentence, a word, or bullet points is enough. Take one minute during your day to jot down your raw thought or intention. Consistency beats volume every time.
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