We live in such a transactional era “what is he/she doing for me” but then expect to be husbands and wives lol. How about you just do something for one another because you like or love them! 😭
I’m 37 and I’ll say this: find someone you love the fuck out of and marry them ASAP. You don’t want to be pushing 40 doing this shit all by yourself and you’re not going to find someone better, just trust me