Stephanie Shar

The ultimate irony of my publishing journey is that I wrote a book for the exact people who often can’t afford to buy it. My main character is broke. My target audience is deciding between groceries and a paperback. You’re not failing. You’re just poor. stephanieshar.substack.com/p…

another day, another fb “person you may know” who must’ve unfriended me at some point. 😂 and what that tells me, is that i’m growing! if your life isn’t changing, that means you aren’t either.

I mini-relaunched my debut novel a month later because apparently self-publishing a book once wasn’t enough 😂💛 We celebrated version 1.1, updated my race to 100 (31/100!!), talked about my first month as a published author, and I finally revealed… youtube.com/live/gG0y6PRs20A…

new vlog 🫶🏼 another week in my life as a human mom, cat mom, magazine writer, fiction author, social media manager & overstimulated oversharing diva :) book stuff, body image meltdowns, target retail therapy & everything mildly on fire 🔥 youtu.be/4IsdXk28xPQ?is=eJXM…

new vlog 🌲 solo cabin reset, annotating The Love Lottery, tracking my first sales, reading, journaling, scrabble, dive bars, farm rides, beach time + a lot of honest chats about health, money, grief, depression & trying to find my footing again. youtu.be/fVstwpCc9OE?is=rXsP…

It turns out writing the book was only half the adventure. Formatting it was the other half. 😂 But it's finally here. My debut novel, The Love Lottery, is officially live. 💛📚 amzn.to/4x4EYmW

new vlog ☕ life in my late 30s means rebuilding, reading more books, taking skincare way too seriously, writing a novel, and realizing healing is usually a lot quieter than i expected. come get ready with me 🤍 🎥 youtu.be/xAXUDsO2TcI?is=Povk…

healing my nervous system with fiction books and iced coffee seems to be working tbh ☕📚💙 youtu.be/Wl7pPUVkJZU?si=bm2U…

This woman next to me just used “retarded” 3x in a row. I also haven’t been able to work out in a week and a half. Should I punch her in the mouth?

I’m filming another Q&A this week 🤍 Ask me anything about: • rebuilding your life in your 30s • routines & realistic resets • mom life + balancing everything or anything else you’re curious about ✨ youtu.be/n4bV8iBxmqs?si=vWgd…

i used to pack my weekends trying to “make them count” and just ended up more exhausted. now i focus on what actually supports me—and everything feels lighter. youtu.be/V2m15vzh92U?si=p9fc…

i thought burnout would make it hard to be creative turns out it’s learning how to feel safe being creative again youtu.be/yEv8jOEMMnw?si=kgQ2…

my first week as a full-time freelance writer: ✍🏼 writing my novel 🧠 fighting burnout ☕ romanticizing everything 🛁 taking too many baths turns out staying creative when you’re exhausted is… the real plot twist new vlog 🤍 youtu.be/yEv8jOEMMnw?si=Vfyt…

I planned a calm March reset week… an analog vlog to start the month feeling grounded. Instead, almost everything went wrong 😅 If you like long, chatty vlogs to play in the background while you clean or reset your space, this one’s for you. youtu.be/xrj-nMdpa_U?si=VI0W…

I thought this was just a healthy habits challenge… but it really turned into learning how to trust myself again 🤍 youtu.be/NqBkQc7soDU?si=GToy…

Healthy habits don’t stick because you’re motivated. They stick because you change your identity. New vlog is up — realistic wellness as a busy mom figuring it out in real time 📷 youtu.be/NqBkQc7soDU?si=eIfr…

I never thought this day would come… but yesterday was my last day working 4 jobs. Quiet new chapter energy 🤍 New 5AM Diaries is live if you need a reminder that change is possible → youtu.be/n9h7WK8s91Q?si=AKIb…

New video: how I get a month of work done in one weekend so I can still rest. If you’re juggling multiple jobs or side hustles, this might be worth taking notes on. youtu.be/RoPwXRfWY9U?si=31Ef…

Romanticizing my February reset ❄️💌 A cozy, chatty, behind-the-scenes look at life as a working mom + freelance creative — part routine, part reflection, part mini documentary. youtu.be/i_TetB0aLXs?si=GszU…