this makes me think about how i’m a brat & feel uncomfortable submitting to someone who is actively trying to make me submit, instead of feeding into my wants to unlock that.
non-black, non-american negatively commenting on how a black women feels about seeing a majority black-used product (that black people face backlash for wearing) on non-black people who also probably appropriate black culture daily.
i hate this violent ass speech around sex, like this really throws me off.
same with “cracking”, “fucking”, “hitting”, “smashing”— like why all of these violent words for an intimate act?
