This is exactly the kind of chaotic female energy that destroys relationships before they even start. You had one kiss and decided this man wasn't worth your time? That's not life coming at you fast, that's your attention span being shorter than a TikTok video. The fact that you're calling him "your new man" after one kiss shows you were probably already planning the wedding in your head before you even knew his middle name. You went from zero to girlfriend mode to completely done in the span of 48 hours... that's not normal decision-making, that's emotional instability. Most likely, the kiss didn't give you the Disney movie fireworks you were expecting, so instead of giving attraction time to build, you just bounced. This is why men don't take women seriously anymore .