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Wife of a menopausal husband after testicular cancer… the realities, plus endometriosis and fibromyalgia for good measure …

England, United Kingdom
Joined October 2011
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Well tonight’s rant is over…thank goodness some might say, when you see someone not smiling or engaging that normally would- please don’t judge them, see if they are ok because they might just appreciate that kind gesture… loneliness is the pits.
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Yes there are options and some we have tried others investigate throughly but to no avail. What’s really unfair is that unless a miracle happens our journey to parenthood is over. Which makes me so incredibly sad. Grieving what we never had.
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As I sit here tweeting on Mother’s Day of which I am not… as a Nanny by profession some describe as β€œrent a mum” I as a women am so fucked off at TC as it has not only created havoc for the past 5 yrs but also I am childless with little hope of changing it.
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A battle that will never be won, exhaustion, low mood, grumpy, sensitive, emotional or not emotional at all. The list is rather endless & for the most part it’s a walking on egg shell situation.
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When your loved one first gets the diagnosis of testicular cancer which luckily some would say was fairly early stages but as we know cancer affects people so differently. The after effects are what are worse in this case. A constant battle of emotions.
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Testosterone doesn’t just regulate your sexual drive… oh no… from your mood to your temperature it has a role in most things. PMT is no joke as us gals know, nor is lack of testosterone for the men. It causes all sorts of problems.
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So here goes… cancer is fucking shit in whatever form this we all know. What happens when the all clear comes… well in my case the battle of testosterone. There is none for my husband, it all comes in a vile from a pig I believe?! Don’t quote me.
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Please retweet, do not sell or give away your pets on social media⚠️ If you need to re home a pet contact a registered charity. Cruel people don't always look cruel. This man bought kittens on Gumtree to use as bait for dog fighting. bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-g…
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Sad reality! Beware of OWNER! 🧑
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Do we have to accept that while animal shelters are full and pets are being abandoned and destroyed when there is no rescue space, that greedy, unscrupulous breeders profit from the sales of animals online? Please tweet your MP now and ask for a ban of sales of pets online #UK
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Please retweet to help Monty find a home #KENT #UK Described as 'Britain's Most Unwanted Dog', he's been waiting in the shelter for 8 years. Please share like crazy! πŸ™ ApplyπŸ‘‡ lastchanceanimalrescue.co.uk InfoπŸ‘‡ mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/uk… #dogs #pets
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They sayd I'm to ugly to get any like πŸ˜”πŸ˜”
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A store that allows homeles dogs to come inside at night πŸ™β€
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Please retweet to help Freddy and Dave find a home #LANCASHIRE #UK Bonded pair of Border Collies ages 3 and 5. They are energetic and can live with children aged 7 +. Dave has epilepsy and the rescue will help with medication fees. DETAILS or APPLYπŸ‘‡ bleakholt.org/lancashire-ani…
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What a glorious afternoon to make memories for a lifetime! What an generous honour, to have William in my family home, with champange giving me a Damehood. Not sure life could get more surreal. But happy. @KensingtonRoyal you are welcome for tea at ours anytime! @BowelbabeF Β£5mil
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Please retweet to HELP FIND SUZIE AND SCOUT MISSING FROM #TETBURY #GLOUCESTERSHIRE 26 MAR 2022 2 Jack Russell Terriers 1Female 1Male Cherington Pond, nr #Avening #GL8 SIGHTINGS PLZ ☎️07548065724 DETAILSπŸ‘‡ doglost.co.uk/dog-blog.php?d… doglost.co.uk/dog-blog.php?d… #dogs #petcrisis22
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We are still looking for a group of labourers to help us build our sanctuary in West Romania. Please contact us at [email protected] if you can help for one week as soon as possible. We only have 3 workers and it is slow work without help. Thank you!
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These breed dogs in Romania have been given up, and we have these 3 in our care now. Today's throw away society is partly to blame too and it is always the dogs who suffer. No matter what country in the world.
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