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I'm the last person to help you talk to your spouse cos you cheated. Wat am I supposed to do/say? Unfuck the fuck or "I'm Sorry he/she cheated". To wat end? – at Ozuoba, Nigeria
You'll think that it's joke until you put head. Eyes has seen, ears has heard. The battles in these organizations eh... – at Choba, Nigeria
if you are not spiritual, you cannot work in certain industries and sectors like oil and gas, mining, construction, aviation, maritime and even underground engineering. there are things that happen in these environments that go beyond what you can physically see or explain.
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The supervisor you're attached to will determine whether your work will be easier or difficult. Defense is next month, up till now I've not seen my supervisor talk more of submitting my report. Madam no gree come sch for 3weeks now 😕😕 – at Choba, Nigeria
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Age-shaming someone or asking why they are behind in their career without knowing what life has put them through is just unkind.
Life in UK is extremely hard. If you have a partner in UK, y'all should pull resources together and do things. There should be a spreadsheet on how money enters and how it leaves. You'll be surprised on how much you both will achieve together. Instead of my money is my money shi. – at Choba, Nigeria
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Before you do 50:50 with any man remember the Nigerian law doesn’t protect women.
It doesn’t favor woman.
If you do 50:50 with anybody you will lose woefully.
The Africaness in them will never be taken away. The woman will still carry most of the domestic burden
Can someone educate me, please? Nigerian women living abroad, whether married to or dating Nigerian men, how exactly does this 50/50 arrangement work?
Do you split everything financially down to the last penny? And do the men also split household responsibilities 50/50? Chores, cooking, cleaning and everything that comes with running a home? Or is it just the bills that are expected to be shared equally while the responsibilities at home remain largely on the woman's shoulders?
I genuinely want to understand because I don't live abroad, and I don't understand the dynamics behind all this 50/50 debate that's been dominating my timeline.
I also want to believe that some Nigerian men living abroad are married to Nigerian women or are in relationships with them. Do your wives split the bills 50/50? Do your girlfriends contribute equally?
And if some women come out to say they don't believe in splitting bills 50/50, why does that suddenly become an excuse to drag and generalise all Nigerian women? That's the part I don't understand.
Now, because of this same argument, foreigners have joined in to insult and generalise Nigerian women, and some Nigerian men are happily clapping along.
Well, I'm not surprised. Anything to drag a Nigerian woman, anything to disparage, degrade or humiliate her, and some of you are right there, eager to join in. Put all Nigerian women under one tweet and watch how excited some of you become.
Some of you will eventually marry Nigerian women. Some of you already have Nigerian wives. You have mothers, sisters, female cousins and other female relatives. Yet you find it so easy to insult an entire population of women because of the actions or opinions of a few.
We all know that not every Nigerian woman thinks or behaves the same way. So why is it so difficult to make that distinction?
Honestly, the level of excitement and the kind of erection some of you have been getting from this gender war over the past few days is something else.
Some people genuinely enjoy having a reason to hate and insult women. Keep being the idiots you are. Some men are just completely off it for me.
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People whose fathers sit at home drinking kaikai in the morning while their mothers go to the market and farm to hustle, will say the majority of Nigerian women are breadwinners. Then you, an Igbo girl whose father gave everything in the world will join them. Because borrowing trauma is cute.
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People are acting like Jensen Huang losing half his fortune would be some tragedy.
The real tragedy is a woman standing by a man for 40 years, helping him build an empire, only to be betrayed.
Give her the billions
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And another thing, niggas always want a bitch to be soft but offer literally nothing for her to be soft & submissive to. No dates, no lunch money, no sweet words, no nice gestures, no thoughtfulness, nothing but dick. Lmao nahhhhhh I’d never be soft to a mf who offers nothing.
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A helper is an expense. A cleaner is an expense. A chef is an expense.
Your wife does all three and suddenly you’re the only one contributing?!
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"If you ever have to choose between a man and a career, always choose your career because your career will never wake up in the morning and tell you it doesn't love you anymore!"
-Lady Gaga
We will all talk about Nvidia but I keep thinking about her.
The wife behind the now powerful man that once worked at Dennys.
Lori Huang
Forty-one years married to Jensen Huang.
She was there before the black leather jacket, before the trillions, before any of it. She built a family with Jensen while he built a company.
Today, the whole world got to read his apology in a company memo.
She has to live it....
Lori is the woman standing next to him in thousands of photographs like these, finding out- along with the rest of us... what was happening behind her back.
He'll answer to his board
He'll answer to Congress
The market will do whatever it does
But in stories like this one, Lori is always the one who pays the highest price for something she never did💔
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Sweet Monday morning on the street of Lagos.
I guess no other city in the whole world can remake this type of vibe
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One thing life has taught me is, your morals in most cases, are determined by circumstance. You will absolutely find yourself in a position you once judged
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Let’s even say we all want to be tribal bigots together.
Tinubu failed ( A Yoruba man)
We are left with 2 competent people . An Igbo man ( Peter Obi) and another Yoruba man( Seyi makinde) but somehow you want yet another Yoruba man to take over?
Regardless of how you spin this thing. It simply doesn’t make sense.
It is no longer even about bigotry it is simply genuine hatred for the Igbo race.