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OJ

@theojframe

I write about Relationships, Frame and Social Dynamics.

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Joined December 2017
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Most men lose women for one reason. They lose themselves first. Frame is not confidence or money. Frame is sovereignty. I write about power, attraction, and social dynamics without moral fluff. substack.com/@ojframe?r=1ok…
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There’s zero need for you to get revenge on a girl that cheated on you. There’s zero need to present evidence of her infidelity to her. Just get rid of her as quickly as possible.
Terp (@OnlyTerp) profile pictureTerp
@OnlyTerp9h
Keep focusing on yourself
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Gentleman! Get used to this reality. The only adult virgins out there are men! There are no adults female virgins so adjust your expectations accordingly.
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This is what will eventually happen if you continuously mate-guard your woman
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S6BER (@s6berr) profile pictureS6BER
@s6berrOct 27
Clavicular LOST IT after a guy BEGGED him for MERCY in front of his own girlfriend ASKING not to take HIS girl 😭❤️‍🩹 "I know at the end of the day, you're probably not gonna see her... You have all these other girls." "Are you asking me for mercy?" "There's more fish in the sea."
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If she wants to tell you about her past. Allow her. Let your idealisation of her die.
dmoon (@dmoonlives) profile picturedmoon@dmoonlivesNov 9
If men knew the intimate details of their gf/wife’s sexual past, their entire world would come crashing down in an instant.
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99@9ineteen9Nov 8
When you fuck up, avoid overly effusive apologies. "I'm sorry" "I hurt her" "I betrayed her" "I let them down" "You deserve better" Stop it. All you did was smash a pretty young thing and leak state secrets. Apologize once and keep it moving. Be a man.
The Kobeissi Letter (@KobeissiLetter) profile pictureThe Kobeissi Letter
@KobeissiLetterNov 8
BREAKING: Nvidia, $NVDA, CEO Jensen Huang sends a company-wide email regarding his recently reported relationship with a Chinese spy.
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Indicates of Interests. E.g - Stealing glances at you - Orbiting your location - Playing with her hair while talking to you - Touching you - Unnecessary Blushes
e1Ol (@einsteinjnr003) profile picturee1Ol@einsteinjnr003Nov 8
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what's ioi?
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In a bus going to Yaba today. Girl is stealing glances at me. We get closer to our destination. I finally speak to her. She’s interested. I tell her she will follow my route. She doesn’t object. We hold hands. She doesn’t object. IOI’s
Drekov (@Drekov258085) profile pictureDrekov@Drekov258085Nov 8
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Examples of IOI from naija women
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Girls want a piece of you when it’s your birthday.
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You must learn to spot IOI’s from women.
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Turned +1 today. Happy birthday to me.
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Your first and major mistake you make with women is taking them seriously.
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Stop sleeping with girls you are not attractive to. Stop sleeping with fat bitches. Protect your soul nigga.
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@cknze1Nov 7
The money that you provide for the woman you married who you know was not attracted to you in the least is the compensation you have to continually dole out to her for the opportunity cost she perceives she has incurred in missing out on a more attractive option. Basically, your provision is what makes her life-long punishment of being yoked to your pathetic ass more palatable. So what happens when even that provision is now off the table? You are punishing her twice. First with the curse of being with a man she doesn’t find desirable. Second, with no compensation to make the first punishment an endurable option. She is basically in a lose/lose now and that is why she must lash out. The game is brutal, but fair.
Sir Dickson (@Wizarab10) profile pictureSir Dickson
@Wizarab10Nov 6
Una dey marry ooo
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Subconscious programming whilst being unawares Meanwhile your subconscious is Amoral, it's doesn't judge through the notion of good and bad, but rather using intensity of emotion behind it and repetition of such intensity, it's how your reality is being manifested..
OJ (@theojframe) profile pictureOJ@theojframeNov 7
Men and bros were in the gym the other day. Mavo is playing. I look at my bro. Dude is chorusing “if I no get money, she go shenk me” Imagine what that shit does to your subconscious mind.
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You and the guy driving the benz have the same reward. The only issue ? You weren’t patient enough to receive yours.
Mr Jaiye (@onlyonemojo) profile pictureMr Jaiye
@onlyonemojoNov 6
I Dey waka with babe today. One final year guy wey Dey drive one nice Benz park for our front, na so he whine down begin toast this girl. Shame don Dey catch me na, so I begin waka Dey go front. I Dey reason say she go catch up with me. As I turn back this girl don enter car drive off. She text me this evening Dey tell me sorry. Na once I block am.☹️☹️
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Men and bros were in the gym the other day. Mavo is playing. I look at my bro. Dude is chorusing “if I no get money, she go shenk me” Imagine what that shit does to your subconscious mind.
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I do not think the problem is "staying under a woman's roof" it's is: Making sure you contribute the largest in the finances during your stay. Knowing when to leave. All these would be easier if she's a kind person. LEARN.
OJ (@theojframe) profile pictureOJ@theojframeNov 6
Year 1. I spend the weekends at my girlfriend’s place. She takes care of everything. 3 months in. Her attitude towards me was hostile. She got tired of doing everything. She nagged and complained. I stop going to her place. Tl:dr Never sleep under a woman’s roof.
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Year 1. I spend the weekends at my girlfriend’s place. She takes care of everything. 3 months in. Her attitude towards me was hostile. She got tired of doing everything. She nagged and complained. I stop going to her place. Tl:dr Never sleep under a woman’s roof.
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My unc was diabetic for almost two decades. Bro came face to face with death multiple times. Fast forward, he gets married. Six months later. He gets seriously ill and dies. What diabetes couldn’t do? Marriage did.
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